Well as a mum of a child with ASD and ADHD and 2 other children and no real help during the weekdays I think me time is ok if you have the time and dont mind anyone who can take some time to do so, I'll be honest my me time is 5 mins sitting in silence at 6.30am or taking 10 mins to sit in silence in the afternoon if my 3 year old naps or my favourite me time doing the weekly shop late at night all by myself and I'm ok with that as I choose to have my children and while they are young they come first and have to say I dont think I'm the only mum out there that realises that my me time can come when the kids are older if you dont have help you cant always have me time.I think me time is important you can’t serve fro an empty cup and a happy mother is a happy child , it’s also good to be healthy and strong particularly when the other parent is away for large chunks of time ,
She just needs to find something fun for her daughters to do , and not fob them off on friends , maybe a nursery for play sessions where poppy can be creative and play with play doh and paints and dress up etc .
The social interaction would be good
I don’t decry any woman for taking some time away , but she needs to stop putting on others and cough up some money .
I caught my 18month old dragging a stool to the cooker! It’s so difficult to toddler proof a house because they come up with things you don’t expect. You need to watch them like a hawk!It’s honestly like she’s missing the maternal instinct- that thing inside you as a parent that wants to do everything & everything to protect and care for your children. It’s like she just doesn’t understand why it’s wrong to do things like this. Poppy is practically still a baby, she’s just turned 2. 2! She has no
Concept of danger or how to keep herself safe - that’s what parents are meant to do.
I have a child the same age as Poppy. I have him with me in every room I’m in. If I go upstairs- even just to grab something quickly - i take him up with me. If I go to the loo, he’s in there with me. Because he’s 2 - if I take my eyes off him for a single second he’s climbing on the furniture (and could fall &
Hurt himself) or he’s trying to grab at the TV or he’s trying to put something in his mouth or whatever. Kids that age cannot just be left alone to please themselves because it’s not safe!
How can’t she see that? Is she really that thick?
If I was Lee or any of the grandparents/ family I would be horrified & terrified at her complete lack of care and at her disinterest in those kids. She only gives a shit if she’s making money out of them. Otherwise she seems like she really couldn’t give a damn about them.
Yesterday i was in kitchen so not far from living room my 15 month old had climbed into the arm if the sofa and was reaching items off the window sill.I caught my 18month old dragging a stool to the cooker! It’s so difficult to toddler proof a house because they come up with things you don’t expect. You need to watch them like a hawk!
She's not a great advert for them either the way she's agedI wondered that too. I use a lot of Elemis but haven’t bought anything from them since I noticed how much Grabby uses and I’m torn as they’re one of my favourite skincare brands BUT I HATE that they give her stuff and probably pay her too. The fact that you can save £15 if you mention her name at the Elemis online checkout is so frustrating
This! Absolutly this! The worry mother’s go through every second of the day. She doesn’t have this. She has zero maternal instinct and lots of people don’t until they see that baby in their arms and they instantly get it, she never has got it. I’m so so sad right nowIt’s honestly like she’s missing the maternal instinct- that thing inside you as a parent that wants to do everything & everything to protect and care for your children. It’s like she just doesn’t understand why it’s wrong to do things like this. Poppy is practically still a baby, she’s just turned 2. 2! She has no
Concept of danger or how to keep herself safe - that’s what parents are meant to do.
I have a child the same age as Poppy. I have him with me in every room I’m in. If I go upstairs- even just to grab something quickly - i take him up with me. If I go to the loo, he’s in there with me. Because he’s 2 - if I take my eyes off him for a single second he’s climbing on the furniture (and could fall &
Hurt himself) or he’s trying to grab at the TV or he’s trying to put something in his mouth or whatever. Kids that age cannot just be left alone to please themselves because it’s not safe!
How can’t she see that? Is she really that thick?
If I was Lee or any of the grandparents/ family I would be horrified & terrified at her complete lack of care and at her disinterest in those kids. She only gives a shit if she’s making money out of them. Otherwise she seems like she really couldn’t give a damn about them.
I dont know anyone who describes themselves as a Pinterest mum sounds so wanky.I’m usually the first one to shoot someone down for calling her a bad mother, as although not the greatest she most certainly wasn’t the worse. But now, I feel sick. The way she treats those girls. How many vile looks or eye rolls can she give her children for wanting attention. She is absolutely VILE. I’ve seen to many stories or vlogs this week were she’s got annoyed at her girls for just being kids. I’m not on here much as I’m just really not that interested in her but after coming across he latest vlog I am praying for those girls. The utter hatred she shows when they are getting on her nerves, and that’s shown on camera so god only knows what happens off camera.
WHy is she a madam for wanting her mum? I’m done.
Who the fuck calls themselves a Pinterest parent. I think she really did try and parent for one week, and now she’s amazed at herself. Try doing it permanent, you’re a mother. I’m fucking angry. I hate seeing children treated like this.
That's the scary thing if she leaves in what we do see what on earth is she editing out, everyone has bad days or sometimes may act in a way like they've had enough of the children (mind for me that's usually after being with them all day at about 4-5pm when not only I'm grumpy but they are aswell not first thing on a morning even when I've been up all night that's probably when I have the most patience) but surely as you were editing you would see the way you look and how you are being and edit stuff out.I’ll be the first to admit I have (and do) roll my eyes and shout at my kids. I do it in the privacy of my home as it’s not something I’m particularly proudof. I don’t do it in front of 100k viewers.
I can only wonder what behaviour she edits out...
Poor lees going be very busy his 2 weeks off. I assume he works 14days straight on the rigs.Ok so watched her vlog cant believe she made Lee not go to football because her parents were coming round with a takeaway surely he could have gone then had some takeaway when he came home and seen her parents then it's not like her parents had far to travel I'm sure they could have waited for him.
Some people may disagree with me but I feel quite sorry for Lee hes had to go back to work because Mrs Me Time wouldn't get off her arse and do her job professionally let's face it when he gave up his job his main part of the deal was he was going to be SAHD so she could be the worker and he did hold up his part of the deal but he went back to work and has been home now almost a week and from what I've seen made one plan to go out on his own to have me time and play football with his friends and she stopped that, I mean yes he went to golf early in the week but he took S with him and even when he went to the gym Reb went with him.
Thanks Reb for showing the shit parts of the kitchen the paint on the insides of the door could easy be the primer that you painted but ok your help wasn't professional but you still had help and I think the shit tip state of the utility shows that and I think which ever family member did it for you cleaned as they painted and covered the countertops in the kitchen which you pair of planks didnt when showing painting the primer as my god even if you dont care about the worktops surely you would still have sheets or something to cover them so you didnt make a mess but you didnt hence the state of the utility room tops but the kitchen during all this work never looked so paint splattered so yeah the brushes in the utility etc you probs are doing that room yourself. If you didnt lie so much and didnt have to keep up with the lies you would probably feel so much better in yourself.
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