Perhaps this is what they have agreed? I am not trying to be facetious, but Reb. does have greater earning power. Within any relationship, there are terms to be agreed when children come along. These poorly children are with their Dad. Please do not reduce this to the equivalent of a child being abandoned.
But you realise her post is the post setting this tone, not us!
She coming across like she has to leave her poor darling poppy with her dad but not to worry...
Mummy will be back by bed time after mummy earns the bread ?
She makes him look like her nanny, not us!
He does 50% of the parenting I assume so why not give him credit,
if this post was on Lees page as he went off to work we would read it very differently!
They both parent, they’re both stay at home parents, him more so than her really.
So why not give him the respect he’s due.
It can be easy to read into her post too much I agree but I just wish she would tone down the martyr role a notch.