I remember her recently taking S shopping. And in her Sainsbury’s haul she showed a mustard dress which (in my opinion!) was more grown up and stylish and S hated it so it was going back, she said S chose the flamingo twinset, so it does seem it’s the clothes she’s choosing? She is only 8 which could be yr 3, if may not be she wants older styles for another year or 2 kids are all different.I wonder if her kids ever get sick of her dressing a like? My MIL is obsessed with stuff like that. She bought my girls matching outfits for Easter and my 4 year-old asked her why she never gets the kinds of clothes she likes. Kids have opinions about what they do and don't like. Obviously we as parents have the right to pull rank whenever we see fit. But it doesn't change the fact they like what they like. I know that Rebecca asks her girls about color but it seems like she skips right over anything that isn't a dress. If the girls truly love dresses that's fine. But Safiyah is a year older then my eldest and she hates matching stuff. At some point Rebs is going to have to stop lumping her kids in together and start letting them having some individuality.