I was the same, had a house with my ex-husband, when we split up I had to move out because some how he managed to take my name off the mortgage. He was controlling and still tries to be 8 years later. After living with my mum and dad for 6 months with my 2 kids I moved into a private rental where we still are today. I had nothing apart from our clothes and the kids toys and bits, a kettle and a sofa. I changed a fully magnolia rental into a home for us with colour on the walls and the kids rooms how they wanted them. I used to be bitter that I had lost everything but now I look back at how far Iāve come in every aspect of life, physically and mentally, with my career Iāve worked so hard for over the last 3 years since I changed jobs and how Iāve raised my kids pretty much single handedly with minor input from their dad. I look at him now and feel nothing but pity for him, he may have the house and put on a happy front but I know he leads a miserable life.
Im so proud of me and what Iāve achieved and what Iāve provided for my babes but more importantly the morals and lessons Iāve taught them in life. I may have been knocked down (hard) and hit rock bottom but Iāve got up again, stronger than ever and showed I can do it as Iām sure you are too. Be proud, itās not a step backwards at all but a step towards a better, brighter and happier future for you
![Red heart :heart: ā¤](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/2764.png)
![Red heart :heart: ā¤](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/2764.png)
xx
Edited because my grammar was shocking!!