Why does she need the labels on everything? It’s a glass jar, you can just seem with the power of sight what’s inside. Makes her house look even worth. Surprised she’s not stuck a label on Ronnie or Henry’s forehead
I read this and thought I'll just nip round d to Staces. Fkn hell! The same heart in the corner of the post the same magic finger shite . They even sound the sameI never know these days if I’m watching Hinch or Staceys stories.
They all seem to blend into one.![]()
Woo woo woo. I NEVER once said that dogs should not be treat without love, affection and care. Nor did I say you should dominate them or be aggressive to them. I said that they are happy when they know their place within a home. I don't think it's an old fashioned way of thinking at all, nor does it mean you need to be anything other than loving or caring. Just because you don't let a dog on a sofa or bed does not mean they are being treat cruelly! But everyone's entitled to their opinion and I'm not going to debunk yours. However I personally believe dogs do need to know their place, to know that the owners (pack leaders) are there to love, protect, and take care of them. Not once did I say you had to be horrible or anything other than loving or caring to a dog. There's a difference between letting a dog know it's place in the family and abuse!Sorry, but thats total rubbish, a really old fashioned way of thinking, and not to say a majorly disproven fact!
Dogs live in packs - with other dogs. They know we're human, they know we're not part of their pack.
They need training and guidance from us, not harshness and domenieering.
Having them on the sofa or your bed doesn't mean they're top of the pack. However them listening to you asking them to get off is you guiding them.
I have a rescue GSD who was treated for the first 2yrs of her life exactly how you think life should be for a dog. She was broken, she was scared. It took her ages to accept my husband because she hates men as they were the ones always trying to dominate her.
You know what's fixed her, kindness, treating her for good behavior, redirecting her bad behavior with something fun to do, and patience. Definitely not trying to be her 'pack leader' !!
I see dogs come through our rescue everyday suffering because of that old way of thinking.
Hopefully the Mods will let me post this link, because what you're saying is dangerous advice.
Sorry to rant and go off topic, but thats annoys me more than Hinch.. and thats saying something
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Debunking the "Alpha Dog" Theory - Whole Dog Journal
Exerting "dominance" over your dog is the wrong way to build a good relationship. We debunk the alpha dog theory and show how to build a good relationship.www.whole-dog-journal.com
Honestly wtf! Are we avoiding our families for a laugh?! NO. But she thinks this is ok?! Inconsiderate! Another reason to dislike her bleeping guts.
Bad mums club, my answer would be the second I leave their room at night and know I wont see them for 10 hours or so
In all seriousness, it's scary how much social media can impact how you feel. You see these birth photography sessions where baby arrives in a graceful, black and white, emotional push and then listen to them whittering on about how its love at first sight, motherhood is glorious, everything is perfect, their baby never farts off of schedule, and it's not real life. I couldnt confidently say I loved my first child til she was almost six months old because I was so deep in PND. I looked after her, met her needs, talked to her, played with her, but it was like she was someone else's and I was just looking after her. I always admire the people who admit it's hard far more because every single parent has hard days no matter how perfect the child.
Soph pretends shes talking to her besties on the gram and her hinchers are her closest friends but then will turn round and pretend motherhood is perfect and it's no effort to keep your house like a show home. If you dont want to show the hard parts, fine, your choice. But dont tell your followers you're sharing your life and they're your friends because it gives the impression that is real life.
If you made it to the end of this long ass comment congratulations. I'm sending a little driver to your house with a socially distanced cuddle because life is bloody hard just now
Wow. Been in our house 4 years and our sink doesn't have scratches like that...Jesus Soph hun take it easy on your sink for a bit yeah. I think cleaning it 3 times a day is taking its toll, they are some big scratches. View attachment 128454
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Ha ha doylum you can tell your from the north east!
Proper copy cats these daysI read this and thought I'll just nip round d to Staces. Fkn hell! The same heart in the corner of the post the same magic finger shite . They even sound the same![]()
I also just read the article you shared. That is NOT what I am referring to when I say 'pack leader'. I'm not referring to abuse, dominance and scaring a dog into good behaviour.Sorry, but thats total rubbish, a really old fashioned way of thinking, and not to say a majorly disproven fact!
Dogs live in packs - with other dogs. They know we're human, they know we're not part of their pack.
They need training and guidance from us, not harshness and domenieering.
Having them on the sofa or your bed doesn't mean they're top of the pack. However them listening to you asking them to get off is you guiding them.
I have a rescue GSD who was treated for the first 2yrs of her life exactly how you think life should be for a dog. She was broken, she was scared. It took her ages to accept my husband because she hates men as they were the ones always trying to dominate her.
You know what's fixed her, kindness, treating her for good behavior, redirecting her bad behavior with something fun to do, and patience. Definitely not trying to be her 'pack leader' !!
I see dogs come through our rescue everyday suffering because of that old way of thinking.
Hopefully the Mods will let me post this link, because what you're saying is dangerous advice.
Sorry to rant and go off topic, but thats annoys me more than Hinch.. and thats saying something
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Debunking the "Alpha Dog" Theory - Whole Dog Journal
Exerting "dominance" over your dog is the wrong way to build a good relationship. We debunk the alpha dog theory and show how to build a good relationship.www.whole-dog-journal.com
Forgive me.. but I'm picturing RonRon as that raccoon with the candyfloss, anyone else?