I love it when self serving narcs start using, say, Gabor Mate quotes to justify their bullshit. I heard Floella Benjamin saying the other day “childhood lasts a lifetime” and I think more people would do well to remember that little phrase. What Anna (and all the other Insta-begs) are failing to realise is that their children will have endless repercussions from their childhoods being sold, and their parents ‘putting their own gas mask on first’ under the guise of being a super parent. Being fit and well enough yourself, to look after your child, does not mean you’re green lit to be a selfish bleep. Hope that’s cleared it up for you, Anna.
Mate, I wouldn’t even have someone I’d met on Tinder/Hinge in my house for a takeaway. Let alone have them playing step dad to my recently moved and confused kids. Those poor kids have gone from having what looked like a decent life to being thrown headlong into likely ACEs. Unknown adult males being brought into the home are not good for the future of little girls, statistically. She’s bleeping irresponsible for doing this!!