just quoting this in case anyone missed this absolutely premium quality tea.Been following this thread for a while quietly as
I know two people who dated stripey on hinge. Let’s just say this man is creeeeepy to the highest. Love bombs, desperate to be serious quickly. Just major red flags. He also messaged one of them fairly recently with a miss you type message. I don’t know Anna other than one of the girls said he was now dating a dj so we looked it up.
Finding it very amusing as both girls have almost identical messages from him so I wonder if Anna has this too but was just the one who fell for it.
He made it to the ‘creep board’ PowerPoint when we recapped last years tragic dates
She has severe co-dependency issues and needs a man to validate her. She claims she mourned the end of her relationship whilst she was still married but that’s a silly lie she’s telling herself (and others) because you cannot “mourn” whilst still being married and living together. She also claims she got divorced 1.5 years ago but they only announced it last year and that was when they apparently told the children about them separating. Her inconsistencies in her lies are so obvious, why does she bother? Why does she also only push this “narrative” that you can only be happy when you find a new man? So many divorced women are happier than ever being single, not having to look after another man child and living on their own terms. She’s just a big sack of bullshit.
Oh my god I missed this! Haha quality! Stripey creep
err I’m confused. There was the ring pic 5 weeks ago and Now another piece announcing their engagement?!?
This is so stupid. Why does she think her rushing into another relationship and marriage is giving “hope” to others? What about all those other millions of divorced people who happily bumble on with their lives, with new partners, without forcefully mashing step siblings together within three months of meeting a random?
This this this this this. This is exactly why I dated my partner for six months before I introduced him anywhere. I was pretty sure early doors he was nothing like my ex and I was safe and in a loving and respectful relationship, but I also knew I had trauma from my ex and I wanted to not do what I did with my ex (under his insistence) and go all guns blazing.
oh tit! She’s going to freak when she reads that.Been following this thread for a while quietly as
I know two people who dated stripey on hinge. Let’s just say this man is creeeeepy to the highest. Love bombs, desperate to be serious quickly. Just major red flags. He also messaged one of them fairly recently with a miss you type message. I don’t know Anna other than one of the girls said he was now dating a dj so we looked it up.
Finding it very amusing as both girls have almost identical messages from him so I wonder if Anna has this too but was just the one who fell for it.
He made it to the ‘creep board’ PowerPoint when we recapped last years tragic dates
Sorry to jump on but I’m newly separated and it’s a lot to deal with - I do feel a weight lifted that I only have to think of me and the kids now. Just wondered what anyone else’s advice and experience of separation is as I don’t have many friends in the same position x
Typed out a whole ass analysis of this, and what it means for Anna and HER PERSON but decided to delete it in the end and simply say:Been following this thread for a while quietly as
I know two people who dated stripey on hinge. Let’s just say this man is creeeeepy to the highest. Love bombs, desperate to be serious quickly. Just major red flags. He also messaged one of them fairly recently with a miss you type message. I don’t know Anna other than one of the girls said he was now dating a dj so we looked it up.
Finding it very amusing as both girls have almost identical messages from him so I wonder if Anna has this too but was just the one who fell for it.
He made it to the ‘creep board’ PowerPoint when we recapped last years tragic dates
From someone who’s been through it, the first guy you date is not the one. Generally you stick with them because it’s thrilling to feel the feels again. By the time you realise they’re a head too, you try a bit more because you don’t want to look like a twit with another breakup.
I’d add that stepfamilies are rarely, if ever, truly happy and functional. There’s a lot to be said for maintaining separate households while there are still dependant children at home.
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