Itās like they have an issue with giving up control of their sons
Iād never feel like I control my daughter, my job is to love, educate and nurture her ready for life outside. I could never imagine making her adult life that uncomfortable that Iād be responsible for her and her partner arguing over my behaviour. Itās just
bleeping odd. My MIL pissed in her own chips because now she has a limited relationship with my daughter, sheāll never have another Christmas dinner with her, sheāll never be included in family days out or ever holiday together. She had 12yrs to not act like a
bleep but she thought she knew better. Her behavior could never be defended by my husband and he knew if he tried heād end up back at her house, because I certainly would not have put up with arguing about her. My life will never be a repeat cycle of talking / arguing / exhausted by someoneās behavior who is supposed to be family. Not happening, itās a hill I will die on. Now the SIL has cut me off (took me a year to realise
) because I cut her mother out. Rather than call her mother out it was easier to agree and keep her sweet for babysitting duties. If this pandemic has taught us anything itās that life is too short to put up with bullshit.