You know what I said this to my mum- when heās here she will be all over him. And that will make me even more mad.Nightmare arenāt they. Wait until the baby comes and theyāll be like tramps on chips.
Iām going to call out my FIL when I next see them and say, āIām surprised you havenāt said congratulationsā, and then be silent. Itās just poor manners really and irks me. I know everyoneās personalities are different but youād think theyād at least manage a congratulations. My husband mentioned it to his mum after our second announcement and she replied with āhe doesnāt really congratulate peopleā
I was so excited about telling her and if Iām honest I feel like sheās really being rude to not even mention the pregnancy after so long! I even went on a walk with her the other day for an hour and she never mentioned it or asked how I was. Itās so bizarre. My parents are upset too as in their conversations with her sheās not mentioned it either- just like itās swept under the carpet and something to not be spoken about! Super rude. And baffling.
I totally get what you say about peopleās personalities being different but as you say itās just manners to say congratulations isnāt it?
Il be honest it has upset me, as me and my partner are so excited with it being our first and it does hurt, abit like rejection.
I wish i was strong like you and could ask her what her problem is but Iām scared about rocking the boat. But I really donāt want her around straight after the birth thatās for sure and Iām worried that will cause problems but I feel very strongly about that at the moment. Xxx