I disagree. I’ve seen families have many a happy moment in hospice with dying relatives and after they’ve passed (many reasons - remembering old times, a strange relief if someone had been suffering). My own husband passed away on Christmas Eve and there are photos of me with my young children on Christmas Day trying my best and no doubt smiling for them. Did I post a Christmas Day photo on fb for our concerned family & friends who were undoubtably worried for us whilst they also tried to enjoy their Christmas Day? Absolutely I did. Was I vile? Maybe
Judge greedy on the plethora of wrong doing she does……..but don’t judge for how others grieve. We all do it differently. You also don’t know what’s behind a smile. My husband was videoed at his works Christmas party smiling & joking and being the life and soul………..a week later he committed suicide. Smiles don’t = happy.
Sorry for the rant.