Met at work over zoom

[watermelon sugar]

 

[nbt]

Awww, I got work to do now. This thread has had me in stitches
I'm going to contact my work colleague and tell him to fuck off and do his own paperwork otherwise he won't get a shag



I can do that as he's my husband

You mean… you met at work?

 

[WilmaHun]

“She thinks” being the important 2 words here.....,! How can they have “chemistry” when THEY HAVE NEVER MET IN PERSON AND HAVE NEVER HAD ANY THING OTHER THAN PROFESSIONAL WORK RELATED CONVERSATIONS?!!!!


Jeeeeeesus. Think some peoples ideas of chemistry and mutual attraction are wayyyyy off....!!!

Why you angry typing in caps tho? it aint that deep

 

[nbt]

Everyone please

Stop arguing

Let's settle this, come to my Mcdonalds, where I supposedly work, and I'll give you all a big mac X

Will you also try and shag me though?

 

[nbt]

From the OP, it sounds like she has spoken to him a number of times?

They gel so well, the attraction is strong and she thinks he likes her too…?

I get it if it was a group call and they never even spoke… but that’s not what’s happened.

 

[Warpaint]

How would she text him - she hasn’t got his number?!

I think @Raging.red.head is getting a little ahead. Getting the number is stage 3 of 'operation zoom man'. Stage 1 is still yet to be implemented

 

[bolimepipi]

 

[bolimepipi]

I have just witnessed something truly beautiful...I can feel the love in the room right now
Big mac anyone?

i'll take a big mac just don't add me on facebook, weirdo

 

[LittleMy]

Again, if he’s not interested then he won’t accept or he’ll tell her so. I don’t get what the big deal is here.

 

[Pippylong0509]

Definitely add him on Facebook! What’s the worst thing that can happen? Blokes can be forward why can’t women do the same?
You can even have a virtual wedding over zoom and have me as your tattle bridesmaid

Also panny d and flicking the bean have been my fave quotes from tattle this year

 

[TheGlossy]

I think we're creating a whole debate and getting very invested in this story, but as far as I can see, the author of this post has gone MIA.

Any news?

 

[TheGlossy]

Have a day off. She’s obviously joking.

I was being sarcastic.

Anyway - I'm out of here too as the author of this thread has probably already married the guy and is enjoying her honeymoon given who long it's been since she last posted. Or alternatively, she got kidnapped by this same guy who turned out to be a psycho.

 

[WilmaHun]

Going by that standard then, you should never add anyone you meet off Tinder on social media because it makes you a stalker and a weirdo!!! I forgot people are only allowed to be interested in people they know in the flesh...

 

[watermelon sugar]

Nah, I was going out with his best mate

Girl!! You need your own advice thread

 

[watermelon sugar]

OK - the title is a bit misleading.

That's why you read the rest I guess

 

[watermelon sugar]

Tinder & a work Zoom call are on two completely different sides of the spectrum. Not comparable.

How though? It is someone she has met online, she has took a liking to him. Why can't she try?

 

[under the ivy]

Grown ups who work in professional establishments who interact with colleagues- senior colleagues no less - don’t go around foraging on Facebook to find people they speak to via work to then send unsolicited friend requests

People have added me from work/uni on FB. Are you saying I’m wrong and they’re wrong for forming friendships, potentially romantic relationships?! Loads of people meet at work!

 

[WilmaHun]

It seems pretty self-evident.

Work is not a dating app. I think now that we have moved into this "virtual" world, people seem to blur boundaries.

In every single place I've worked there has been some kind of workplace relationship. It's very common. It's not illegal to date or be interested in dating someone at your work place and as said previously, you've got to shoot your shot somehow! The worst that could happen if she does it this way is rejection. If she did it via email in the workplace that would be extremely unprofessional, far worse than adding someone on Facebook

 

[LittleMy]

I could murder a Big Mac now...thanks losers!

 

[Giggling Squid]

my advice is to stay clear of a work place romance as much as possible.

I’m 9 years into a workplace romance, it’s not necessarily bad....

Panny d is the highlight of this thread!!

In terms of the actual question - if he’s leaving, you’ve nothing to lose. I’d add him on Facebook perhaps after he’s actually gone so you no longer actually work together and go from there. Message him, see what happens