And until then it'll be health woe after health woe until she's exhausted all of them. Funnily enough, she'll never get an official diagnosis. But the symptoms will go into remission on anti anxiety medication
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She seems to be able to turn her symptoms off and on like a tap.She’s started strength training again so how does that fit in with the severe symptoms she’s describing 
lol I love watching videos like these of influencers and wonder how they came about.. did Mel ask baldy (or whoever) to stand away a bit and zoom in on her dancing, film it, then pan out, so she can splash it across social media? I would give myself the ick if I was asking people to do that for me. she likes to come across whimsical and candid but this was 100% directed. you can see she even checks they’re filming her at one point in her dancing cause she looks over at them. then clearly he didn’t film as long as she wanted cause she repeats the same video 3 xShe seems to be able to turn her symptoms off and on like a tap.She’s started strength training again so how does that fit in with the severe symptoms she’s describing
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Too much for him trying to juggle a toddler and Mel at oncelol I love watching videos like these of influencers and wonder how they came about.. did Mel ask baldy (or whoever) to stand away a bit and zoom in on her dancing, film it, then pan out, so she can splash it across social media? I would give myself the ick if I was asking people to do that for me. she likes to come across whimsical and candid but this was 100% directed. you can see she even checks they’re filming her at one point in her dancing cause she looks over at them. then clearly he didn’t film as long as she wanted cause she repeats the same video 3 x
along with his own ego.
She is in her toddler era isn’t she - only selectively eating bland foods, always “sick”, too distracted to stick to any one drama for long, and stuck like Velcro to Daddy.
Why does she always pull these types of faces??? How does she look at that and think it’s flattering?
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Unmedicated 
she had everything bar general anaesthesia
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She thought 35 was too old and women were past it.
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She thought 35 was too old and women were past it.
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And keeps undressing at every opportunity
Someone get her ( and whats left of her pelvic floor after the 3rd degree tear) a medal. She can hang it on the bathroom wall and look at it when her bladders prolapsed by 40
Paint over it? Just clean it you absolute space cadet
LOL! How can she possibly be this thick?! 
She never posts cleaning content and the reason is clear, she doesn’t know how.
Just like she doesn’t know how to drive, swim, file taxes, chop potatoes, mow the lawn, dress herself, dress her kids, care for her cats, stop mould formation, leave the house without husband/daddy …
She never posts cleaning content and the reason is clear, she doesn’t know how.
Just like she doesn’t know how to drive, swim, file taxes, chop potatoes, mow the lawn, dress herself, dress her kids, care for her cats, stop mould formation, leave the house without husband/daddy …
That hearth hasn’t seen a cloth in a long time . Makes you just want to write “ clean me !!!! “ in the dust
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I thought the professional wedding pics were a bit of a letdown, very poor quality on lighting with awkward angles etc, maybe they were # gifted ? Seemed very amateurish to charge a fee.
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I thought the professional wedding pics were a bit of a letdown, very poor quality on lighting with awkward angles etc, maybe they were # gifted ? Seemed very amateurish to charge a fee.
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Last day of preschool??? The child isn’t even 4 year he’s hardly starting primary school this September??? Given her posts about his behavioural issues, if she starts him in school too early they’ll only get worse. I think she just wants him out of the house for longer during the day, mother of the century and all that.
That’s the standard age is it not? Our schools take those born from June to June as a cut off for each yr group,her son would be one of the older children being born in Sept whilst those born in June are the youngest .
He’ll have just barely turned 4. It’s recommended to leave them closer to five so they can better cope with the emotional and social aspects of school. It’s hard for a child that’s closer to three to sit still for five hours a day. On mainland Europe they generally don’t start till five at the earliest.
She’ll all for putting “what’s best developmentally according to studies “ front and centre till it becomes mildly inconvenient. He’ll cope fine with the educational side of it, (they generally do), but it has knock on effects down the line when he’s younger going to to secondary. Considering how emotionally immature she was and the effects that had on her you’d think she’d wait. But she needs to make more room in the flintstone sitting room for the next baby because once they stop breastfeeding they’re too much hassle for her. She really is one of those parents that only likes having babies, and not the actual child.
She’ll all for putting “what’s best developmentally according to studies “ front and centre till it becomes mildly inconvenient. He’ll cope fine with the educational side of it, (they generally do), but it has knock on effects down the line when he’s younger going to to secondary. Considering how emotionally immature she was and the effects that had on her you’d think she’d wait. But she needs to make more room in the flintstone sitting room for the next baby because once they stop breastfeeding they’re too much hassle for her. She really is one of those parents that only likes having babies, and not the actual child.
I’m only stating it’s the law where I am, thought it was the same throughout? My son has only turned 12 but going into yr 9 in September he’s always been the youngest in his class there’s been no problems so far .
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It obviously depends a lot on the child but Ireland and the Uk tend to be outliers in school age starting. The Germans and Swedes like to leave it till six. It just leaves them a bit more resilient generally when they get to secondary.
Just checked and they’ve now got the option to defer for one yr, don’t know how that affects them academically with the standardised tests that they calculate on yrs/ mths if the younger children then become the oldest but learning a yr behind their peers ( have I worked that out right lol)
Compulsory education | Department of Education
Details of when a child must start and may leave compulsory education.
I live in the same general area as Melanie and I’ve noticed more and more parents are holding off until they’re at least 5 to send them. My generation was different, I turned 4 the day before I started school and it definitely set me up for anxiety and social issues as I grew up.
The social leaps between a 4 year old and a 5 year old are so so noticeable.
And then there’s the added factor of her son’s behavioural issues. I have a relative whose son is on the spectrum and waited until he was 6 to send him so he would be more similar in development to his classmates than behind if she’d sent him a year earlier just because he was 5. He is now thriving in school and excelling in all subjects.
Working parents send their babies to crèche from they’re a few months old so jump at school places when available because they’re essentially free childcare, all children learn at different levels regardless of age and different groups are set up in class to cater for each child’s needs based on their individual abilities, I personally think children are socialised more now than yrs ago when they had mammy at home, most children have two working parents nowadays.