Melanie Murphy #2 ED? IBS? PCOS? PTSD? Twitter MD? full of *clean prose* BS anyway!

[Elle]

sorry if I’ve missed it in the thread, but I watched one of Mel’s recent videos where she said about having the baby in a midwife led unit? Meaning she won’t have access to proper pain relief....
For someone who complained about so many disorders/mental health issues/afflictions I will be MIGHTILY impressed if she has a completely natural birth for her first baby.
Well I guess best wishes to her because she’s not gonna have an option to give up when she’s having contractions. Don’t get me wrong, its obviously doable because that’s how humanity started but I don’t think women were likely to complain about getting diabetes from eating a chocolate bar then...

So much this. Giving birth is HARD. And massive props to the women who manage to do it without pain relief (although if you're like me and absolutely need it there is NO shame in that. There are no prizes for having a natural birth and women shouldn't feel pressured to do so). Anyway, I digress. I CANNOT see Melanie being one of the women able to have a natural birth. Will be interesting to see what happens. I guess with her victim mentality she might go the other way and put out a 'My traumatic birth experience' video.

EDIT to add that all births are natural. By 'natural' I'm referring to without pain relief.

 

[LMPhun]

I think she’s potentially setting herself up for a fall with the plans for this “natural” birth, putting any malice aside. I had a rather dramatic pregnancy because of various things that happened, but kept my viewpoint as “sure as long as we’re both in one piece and they’re out, it’ll be grand” as regards to a birth plan.... then pre-eclampsia, an early induction that went on for days ending in a very dramatic c section with a failed epidural... yeah, that was definitely a land and one that has left me with a certain level of trauma around the whole birth thing. And that was without any “if you don’t push it out humming Bon Iver during a full moon while swimming in oat milk it’s not a natural birth” bullshit that is being pedaled. Birth is messy. Birth is dramatic. While medicine has come on in leaps and bounds, and midwife led and home births do happen and work for a lot of people, lots of others do have bad birth experiences, have health conditions that happen out of nowhere, and have what feels like all control taken out of their hands. I hope for her own mental health that while she’s preparing for the best, she’s also ready for the worst case scenario, because I certainly wasn’t, and I thought I was.

 

[Moonbeam94]

I wouldn't be suprised if she came out with a traumatic birth story trying to copy Louise Pentland as i remember her saying how she found her first pregnancy v difficult so I can imagine Melanie will need to copy her

 

[monga]

I honestly don't know what to make of Louise's story, PTSD after Darcy's birth but then opts for a home birth with Pearl That vid of Melanies was just another undeclared fabletics AD with the pregnancy thrown in for good measure ,and was that a Charlie Haughey mask in the window or a pic of Thomas I couldn't make up my mind..I'm sure all this hypno birthing is just for content my guess is she'll opt for anything going once her contractions start..

 

[Jeeen22]

I honestly don't know what to make of Louise's story, PTSD after Darcy's birth but then opts for a home birth with Pearl That vid of Melanies was just another undeclared fabletics AD with the pregnancy thrown in for good measure ,and was that a Charlie Haughey mask in the window or a pic of Thomas I couldn't make up my mind..I'm sure all this hypno birthing is just for content my guess is she'll opt for anything going once her contractions start..

Pretty sure it was Charlie haughey haha how weird

 

[monga]

Why have that in the window really odd

 

[Dearreader]

Am I the only one who's shocked that she's gone to a wedding 7 months pregnant? Last week the government stated how (obviously) the virus was still active in the community and in cases of social events to maintain a distance from others.... pretty impossible to do at a wedding.

It just proves to me that she swallows conspiracy theories on the virus- anti mask rhetoric most recently and all her past jabs about the virus. She's putting herself at risk, I really don't understand it.

 

[martaS]

Am I the only one who's shocked that she's gone to a wedding 7 months pregnant? Last week the government stated how (obviously) the virus was still active in the community and in cases of social events to maintain a distance from others.... pretty impossible to do at a wedding.

It just proves to me that she swallows conspiracy theories on the virus- anti mask rhetoric most recently and all her past jabs about the virus. She's putting herself at risk, I really don't understand it.

Well if she actually got covid (I don't wish it to her or anyone else btw!), at least she would have one not made up health issue.

 

[Elle]

Getting her nails and hair done and going to a wedding...all things I definitely wouldn't have done while pregnant during a global pandemic.

 

[monga]

50 people at the wedding ,although they were social distanced still very risky.She managed to turn it round to her having to cancel her wedding AGAIN (incase we forgot ) and now she's off to celebrate with her alcohol free wine .I'd rather a cup of tea I don't think that stuff would be very heartburn friendly also I didn't like her hair I've seen it better in some of her vids..

 

[laceandgold]

Melanie doesn't seem to have empathy or concern for anyone else, not her guests who expected to attend her wedding up until they were forced to cancel, not her unborn baby that I doubt she will ever bond with the poor child is destined to a life with a narcissistic mother, not the other people in the two households she was hopping between and not her sister when she used a PCOS symptom as an opportunity for self diagnosing and drama when she sister actually has it. Sick woman.

Just listened to the podcast with Georgina. She manically rambled about herself non stop. I've never heard that on a podcast, usually it's a conversation...you're not just talking about yourself. Also lol she said you can't get into the mother led unit if you have health conditions "like BMI and diabetes and stuff like that"...no mention of GASTRO issues!!!?! that's also a health issue that omits you, and mental health issues. Out of all her made up illnesses the mental health one is real, she's going to be "wheeled into the main hospital" as she described most likely - her anxiety isn't going to magically vanish after some classes and breathing exercises. She's either going to be a danger to herself and an anxious mess, maybe they'll keep her in the unit because it'll be too late to move her and she'll get what she wants even more than a baby - she'll get post partum PTSD and another excuse to be a victim. I honestly think she seeks out problems and conditions to attach herself to, most of them made up but in a sick way she kind of seems like the type that is going to let herself get sick just to have the attention.

 

[Dearreader]

Melanie doesn't seem to have empathy or concern for anyone else, not her guests who expected to attend her wedding up until they were forced to cancel, not her unborn baby that I doubt she will ever bond with the poor child is destined to a life with a narcissistic mother, not the other people in the two households she was hopping between and not her sister when she used a PCOS symptom as an opportunity for self diagnosing and drama when she sister actually has it. Sick woman.

Just listened to the podcast with Georgina. She manically rambled about herself non stop. I've never heard that on a podcast, usually it's a conversation...you're not just talking about yourself. Also lol she said you can't get into the mother led unit if you have health conditions "like BMI and diabetes and stuff like that"...no mention of GASTRO issues!!!?! that's also a health issue that omits you, and mental health issues. Out of all her made up illnesses the mental health one is real, she's going to be "wheeled into the main hospital" as she described most likely - her anxiety isn't going to magically vanish after some classes and breathing exercises. She's either going to be a danger to herself and an anxious mess, maybe they'll keep her in the unit because it'll be too late to move her and she'll get what she wants even more than a baby - she'll get post partum PTSD and another excuse to be a victim. I honestly think she seeks out problems and conditions to attach herself to, most of them made up but in a sick way she kind of seems like the type that is going to let herself get sick just to have the attention.

I couldn't agree more with everything you've said here. Also echo the fact that she attaches illnesses/ life obstacles to herself for attention. Honestly... your post is the best I've seen to sum up her behaviour. Also agree she has ZERO empathy for others in any situation.

And she is putting her unborn child at risk- most people don't want to see that or state it but it's true. If this is what it's going to be like while the child isn't born, I dread to think how selfish she will be when it's growing up.

She's not ready for a child. She needs to address her issues of pathological lying and narcisstic tendencies. She heavily relies on social media for external validation and has codependency issues- watching her change her persona per friend group and boyfriends over the years. She went with Thomas because it was easy at that time- she was ticking YouTube boxes- sexy single girl explores her sexuality has threesomes and open relationships- to settled at 30 in a whirlwind because that was the YouTube progesssion- it didn't matter who with. They've barely lived together. With her personality and need to point blame at others- every relationship she has had had been "abusive or toxic" it reminds me of when guys call their exes crazy.... maybe, just maybe it's you Melanie?

She will leave him one day and guarantee it won't be her fault as there's always someone/something else to blame.

 

[Oohthedrama]

Remember internet family,
she’s already had the fake covid so she’s fine!
She also doesn’t mind showing another woman’s baby at the wedding I see.

but don’t you dare ask to see the “spawn in the attic“ you weirdo fans....
you lot are not permitted to see the child of Mel.
Maybe a side profile of the kid resting on some fabletics tit shots if you’re lucky.

 

[martaS]

I puked in my mouth a bit.

He needs his pants better tailored btw. Or you know, TAILORED in general.

 

[StrawberryBanana90]

I don't really want to scaremonger or be overdramatic but it worries me she's not being overly cautious when socialising with people.

There's been many stories about how serious the virus is for pregnant women - a lot of women have complications during birth because they're asymptomatic.

 

[monga]

I don't really want to scaremonger or be overdramatic but it worries me she's not being overly cautious when socialising with people.

There's been many stories about how serious the virus is for pregnant women - a lot of women have complications during birth because they're asymptomatic.

Babies have been born with it ,it's not a time to be socialising..

 

[Dearreader]

Babies have been born with it ,it's not a time to be socialising..

Exactly and we don't yet know the long term effects it has on fully grown adults bodies nevermind on not fully developed babies. Imo I don't think it's dramatic to state the obvious fact that socialising at a wedding while 7 months pregnant durning a worldwide pandemic is very, very risky.

I honestly don't get her previously whining on about how she misses friends etc (mid pandemic) when before she met him she had no friends(his friends don't count)It was Melanie ,her dad and brother. And like a once a year convention with collab friends? So whining for what purpose? It wasn't exactly a hard transition or deviation from the norm for her to not socialise. Acting as if she was jetsetting with friends before she met him, when in reality she was having lush baths and re watching Harry potter with her Dad for the billionth time.

 

[neens113]

Exactly and we don't yet know the long term effects it has on fully grown adults bodies nevermind on not fully developed babies. Imo I don't think it's dramatic to state the obvious fact that socialising at a wedding while 7 months pregnant durning a worldwide pandemic is very, very risky.

I honestly don't get her previously whining on about how she misses friends etc (mid pandemic) when before she met him she had no friends(his friends don't count)It was Melanie ,her dad and brother. And like a once a year convention with collab friends? So whining for what purpose? It wasn't exactly a hard transition or deviation from the norm for her to not socialise. Acting as if she was jetsetting with friends before she met him, when in reality she was having lush baths and re watching Harry potter with her Dad for the billionth time.

I agree with everything that's been said so far about her attending the wedding.
If I was getting married during this pandemic though, I wouldn't invite vulnerable people like Melanie. Might sound odd but Melanie said they had to cut the number of people attending down to fifty. They probably had to un-invite a few people, and to be honest, if I was in this position I'd not invite anyone that's at a higher risk. Don't know if this makes sense. Nothing personal but I honestly wouldn't want to put anyone at risk

 

[monga]

Exactly and we don't yet know the long term effects it has on fully grown adults bodies nevermind on not fully developed babies. Imo I don't think it's dramatic to state the obvious fact that socialising at a wedding while 7 months pregnant durning a worldwide pandemic is very, very risky.

I honestly don't get her previously whining on about how she misses friends etc (mid pandemic) when before she met him she had no friends(his friends don't count)It was Melanie ,her dad and brother. And like a once a year convention with collab friends? So whining for what purpose? It wasn't exactly a hard transition or deviation from the norm for her to not socialise. Acting as if she was jetsetting with friends before she met him, when in reality she was having lush baths and re watching Harry potter with her Dad for the billionth time.

Exactly , I don't know about the advice in the ROI but it's not recommended to be in an indoor setting with lots of people if you're in the vulnerable category ,did she even wear her mask ? I doubt it ! why take unnecessary risks at this stage

 

[Dearreader]

I agree with everything that's been said so far about her attending the wedding.
If I was getting married during this pandemic though, I wouldn't invite vulnerable people like Melanie. Might sound odd but Melanie said they had to cut the number of people attending down to fifty. They probably had to un-invite a few people, and to be honest, if I was in this position I'd not invite anyone that's at a higher risk. Don't know if this makes sense. Nothing personal but I honestly wouldn't want to put anyone at risk

This, and where's Melanies common sense to know better? To say.. you know what? Its not worth the risk, decline the invite and EVERYONE would have understood and not taken offense. So many people are dead, so many suffering. There's a woman right now in Melbourne that tested positive and she's pregnant with twins.

These conspiracy theories she's sticking by are selfish... it's not just about her it's about her baby. Put the baby before getting your hair and nails done and attending weddings. It's not that hard. It's really not.