Hi guys… very long time lurker here but finally felt the need to comment. How DARE he use his autism as an excuse for his bad behaviour?! I am raging! I’m on the spectrum myself and would never ever behave the way he does… in fact I have an undergraduate and a masters degree, a beautiful home (all of my own I might add) and a successful career. I was misdiagnosed with BPD for many years and and yes I still have struggles but I wouldn’t ever use it as an excuse. Maybe I should write a book?!