I'm not a minimalist, by any stretch but Maddie has based a career on it, so it really bugged me in her video tonight where she said they were replacing a radiator in the living room. No mention that it was broken, just choosing to replace it. How many things now have they replaced just because they don't like it?
I have wardrobes that I bought in 2005, I don't really like them anymore because my tastes have changed and the doors don't shut properly either but I'm loth to replace them because they aren't falling apart. I can afford to replace them but I was brought up to not waste things, to use things until they fall apart or mend and make do and I haven't even based a career on minimalism, sustainability and protecting the planet. I don't even think people can't change their views on things but the news is all around us that our consumption is driving climate change and Maddie is making money off that whilst still being incredibly wasteful.
I'm the same, I have so many things that I once liked but now are anywhere from meh (kitchen chairs come to mind) to actually super uncomfortable amd hated (like my Ikea Kivik sofa. It's probably the most uncomfortable sofa I have ever owned, I hate it.)
But I have made it my mission to not buy anything I already own. So the sofa sucks. Well, I get up and move then. My kitchen chairs look dated? A seat cover made from thrifted curtains looks great.
Can she just... not? Not be such a superficial person? She's more privileged than 99.5% of the world, yet she's never happy with what she already has. It's sad and sickening at the same time. I never understood leaving their old house either, at least not while still under the impression that they're supposed to be minimalist. It was perfect for a couple with a dog, and even for one child it would have still been more than enough.
I know I know it's harsh but whining about stuff like having neighbours, cars driving by at night and street lights shining in their windows is such a privileged view on why you're selling your house.
Also this idea of having a "starter home". This is more a general complaint, not a Maddie specific one, but damn, it's just so symbolic for everything going wrong.
Never satisfied with where you are, never working with what you have but instead just chucking away the old and buying the new, wether it be a phone, laptop or house. Any time I watch Homes under the Hammer, its waste waste waste. You buy a property, and even if its renovated, you redo it anyway because the windows are not your style and the floors are not the exact shade of grey you'd like and the bathroom tiles are not metro style. Three years later you sell it and the next buyer does exactly the same thing, ripping out the carpets or vinyl or what have you, redoing the kitchen, adding another extension because who needs green space and grass and soil, chopping down any bush, tree or flower to tarmac it for two more car parking spaces.
You can see it with Maddie very much but it's also something I've experienced and see with others. Buying does not help with the alienation from our human nature and how working feels hollow and senseless. Its something corporations want to make us believe (see this "buying yourself stuff to be a minimalist" trend, too), but it's hollow and without satisfaction.