Awful seeing Lynda Milan turn up on the Mail homepage, ewwww
No - Lydia is the type who absolutely can't stand criticism, even if she could monetise it. She yearns for external validation and wants to be the object of envy because she envies others and covets their possessions, lifestyle, achievements, and happiness. Addressing any of her shortcomings is an attack to this carefully constructed image, and she is unable to brush this aside because deep down she is terribly, terribly insecure. Her smugness, vanity and lack of compassion are a compensation for her deep-seated feeling of inadequacy.Am I the only one thinking that Lydia is not crying over this. She is not even bothered. She is not firing anyone. She is not regreting anything... but opposite, she and Carrie might be celebrating cause the video is getting more views (they are THAT kind of people)
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She got free publicity at the DM. Brands don't care about these incidents and keep hiring her and inviting her to events.
You might think this woman learnt the lesson by now (after Nicky, The Savoy...) but she just always gets away without any consecuence. Brands she works with have no ba/&s to stand up and fire her. Brands just love a good scandal as much as Lydia. Which is sick and sad to be honest.
The worse she gets the gayer he is! Iâm sure he has fantastic affairs while away! Come on aldi show us your new underwear !Somehow the second pic is even gayer than the first...
Hmm, I think you are right. I haven't seeing her IG in ages, and I see after The Savoy she has only got a lot of brands I never have heard before: Suzannah London, FAIRFAX & FAVOR, Jasper Conran London, Jackariaeh francis (Parisian Sweet), Monique Lhuillier, Emilia Wickstead.She has no more work with Dior, NARS, Jimmy Choo, Louboutin, Farfetch, Net-a-Porter, GHD, Fendi, Manolo Blahnik, Salvatore Ferragamo etc. etc
That is where the true money is and once these major brands dumped her, numerous others did too.
Other than Karen Millen.....she doesn't have much of anything as for major brands.
I wonder if it is worth complaining to YouTube etc to hit her monetisation?Her plan worked. Her views were all under 100k for a long time and now theyâve all doubled within a couple of days!! I stayed well away from this bully for a long time and when I checked back in I was happy to see the dramatic drop in views and the notable drop in brands working with her. She knew what she was doing with her comment, she knew it would get her name out there again and Iâm telling you know she is LOVING being front page news.
This explains the urgency and cash grab for her book which literally only took her a few months to write⌠she really is trying to find any way to make money up and re establish her business.I donât know if this might be of some interest to you. Saw them a few weeks back and it provided a good explanation for me, someone who knows nothing about profit and loss accounts. All for LEM OnlineView attachment 2477111
Didn't know about this lady, she's beautiful, seems down to earth and respectful, great dress sense and style. Lydiot has none of these.What did Lydia give away for 1M ? Nada
Matter of fact..: has she ever done a giveaway?
You should let them know why youâll not be purchasing. And yes, please, someone in the UK tell the Princeâs Trust about this ableist disaster of a human being.I would hope The Prince's Trust of all organizations is notified. There is no way they would want to work with a despicable excuse for a human being moving forward.
Has anyone sent the evidence to them? I'm here in the US.
As for LK Bennett, I actually had two pair of shoes and some clothes in a cart to purchase. Will definitely NOT be EVER purchasing a thing from them now.
Welcome back !!! Brilliant post.So much hurt caused. With more to unearth.
Is not one of the biggest partsâand why this story could fadeâis that there is no easy-to-find evidence of her actually doing this? It has all essentially been scrubbed awayâwith the exception of this website and Petty Moiâs TikTokâher offensive moment has been nearly erased. The Daily Mail didnât include any evidential video of her saying it either, so it didnât spark the immediate outrage that Savoygate did, with her famously praising the âSavoyâs wonderful hot water,â while you also visually saw her twirling in an over-the-top dress with an Hermes bag ostentatiously jutting off her Patek Philippe-trimmed arm. Hardly a damsel in distress. Everyone could quickly see the tone-deafness and ludicrousness of it all. And if not, hundreds of TikToks of people lambasting her for weeks to come certainly did the informing. That likely hasnât happened here because people havenât personally yet seen the event occur with their own eyes or ears.
Even more, hasnât this story only been partially told? For it is one thing to say this horrible wordâŚbut it then becomes a whole other thing when you realize that she herself placed this slur out into the world as part of her twice-weekly âentertainmentâ to her â3 million+ viewing audience.â It also then becomes a whole other thing to then deny it, making up a ridiculous story (mongrel/dog) about it. But isnât it more galling that one would choose to showcase themselves saying such a word, decide to place it in a video, and then also use it as a core part of their âteaserâ & advertising, broadcasting it, not just once, but 2 times in 1 day?
Thanks to @Julia123, this IG Story/video that Julia thoughtfully saved and shared (reposted below), before it was scrubbed, could be that evidential âpièce de resistance.â Sadly, this video has seen less light of day than the vlog snippetâand because of this, she has gotten away with much more.
This is the video that everyone needs to see.
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For if you watch/rewatch it, you can easily see:
1. In thisâyet another video of HER OWN MAKING, she once again uses this awful word around the :09 mark.
2. By this teaser videoâs mere existence, unknowingness of the slur cannot be feigned, nor does the âI would never use this word to offend anyoneâ hold much weight, because this word/moment was obviously pinpointed, selected and reviewedâor how else did it magically make its way into a new 24-second teaser video? This wasnât the slurâs original or only iteration. It was the SECOND TIME this slur was selected and broadcast that day.
3. And this videoâwith its undeniable âteaserâ/advertising formatâis not only proof that it happened, but it is worse because she and her team chose to highlight this slur moment. So, one can naturally conclude they must somehow be fond of it because it was selected above nearly all elseâout of all the other available 3,930 seconds in this whopping 1 hour, 6-minute vlog. This slur moment must have been deemed to have been that good, worthy, funny, or entertaining to take on such prominence and what they felt was needed to help âannounce & sellâ the videoâs upload and arrival to YouTube Monday evening. Otherwise, it too would have been on the cutting room floor with the other remaining 65 ½ minutes.
4. This video also confirms that she & her team must have no issue with the slur, because they decided to only draw further attention to it, by placing hyperlinks and the words âWATCH NOWâ immediately underneath. So again, they must have believed that it was positive and would serve as âgood advertisingâ and âcatnipâ to help draw in audiences.
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5. She also doubled-down on ownership of this slur moment by choosing to proudly affix her name, logo and brand beneath it as well. Nothing demonstrates oneâs ownership of something more than this.
6. Even worse, when you just read the transcribed words of this âteaser videoâ, it becomes more incredulous why someone would do this, piecing it together as they did, with accompanying sounds and words that could potentially be seen as continuing, aiding or further speaking to the slur word that she just used. Is she impersonating people who have disabilities? Is she ridiculing them? Why did she just call herself or someone else "a complete m*ong"? The editing is so bad that it makes absolutely no sense. The potential misunderstandings and meanings one could construe from this are both astonishingly stupid and senseless.
The transcribed words of the second half of this video:
- âA complete m*ng!â
- âBetter!â
- âOK, weâre happy about this! Great, fantastic!â
- âWooooh oooohâ
- âUh-huh! Yaayyyy!â
- âChutney makingâ
- âChicken pooâ
- âWooooh ooooohâ
- âHa ha haâ
- âHell-raiserâ
- âFrom this to thisâ
- âGood ooooohâŚâ
The squealing, âchicken pooâ and âhellraiserâ are all horrible on their own. No true professional, no true lady, nor any true author with any emotional intelligence or class would publish such garbage. It is silly, juvenile and crude.
If only the general public, Petty Moi/Tiktok, the media or even Shabaz Says saw this teaser videoâwhere they could not only see her saying these words, in an edit of her own makingâwith her name, branding & promotion proudly all over it, and with all the other gibberish they chose to place alongside the slur, things might be viewed in a new light.
That this was likely no mistake.
That there is ownership.
No embarrassment on her or her teamâs part in creating, broadcasting or promoting thisâand that they did so not just once, but 2 times that day.
That this slur was advertising-worthy to her and her team.
Worthy of placing her name and brand alongside it too.
Without remorse.
And when called out, it was met with indifference and denial.
Then a reluctant removal of the offense, but only when pressured. Not because of true regret, self-awareness or desired self-correction.
And as of this moment, still never sincerely apologizing or stopping to think about any real hurt this may have caused.
Life has just moved onâŚ.business as usual, for her.
All this, coming from this ânew, wiser personâ she claims to have become, thanks to all the "important lessons she learnedâ from Savoygate just a few short months ago.
And unbelievably doing this 2 weeks prior to her âself-pennedâ bookâs debut, where she plans to showcase this very ânewfound wisdomâ that she believes the world also needs, and hopes will hungrily fall at her feet forâpreferably for her hand-signed copies, of course.
And doing this just days after she once again, with tears streaming down her face, begged to see more kindness in the world and for people to do better.
It is all together mind-boggling and deeply disturbing.
He has always looked too primitive to form proper sentencesCaveman
Caveman Punk to Neckerchief Drunk - This cosplay really is becoming laughably absurd!
I bet she regrets taking down the fence to pretend she had more property now. How does she keep the dogs from wandering offIâm not a dog owner, so can any tattlers with dogs kindly explain to me if why: if Berkeley keeps chewing off Porters collar why doesnât she just take the collar off Porter when the dogs are inside? Do dogs need to wear a collar 24/7?
If I remember correctly, it was a split rail fence, and the dogs could have just walked under the rails. The fence had no 'containing' qualities and was purely decorative.I bet she regrets taking down the fence to pretend she had more property now. How does she keep the dogs from wandering off
Iâm still surprised the animals are trying to escape the bunga like little 4 legged runaways. You would think that since she was so heartbroken about lynx she would make sure the dogs were properly containedIf I remember correctly, it was a split rail fence, and the dogs could have just walked under the rails. The fence had no 'containing' qualities and was purely decorative.
With everyoneâs kind permission I would like to award this post a distinguished service medal!So much hurt caused. With more to unearth.
Is not one of the biggest partsâand why this story could fadeâis that there is no easy-to-find evidence of her actually doing this? It has all essentially been scrubbed awayâwith the exception of this website and Petty Moiâs TikTokâher offensive moment has been nearly erased. The Daily Mail didnât include any evidential video of her saying it either, so it didnât spark the immediate outrage that Savoygate did, with her famously praising the âSavoyâs wonderful hot water,â while you also visually saw her twirling in an over-the-top dress with an Hermes bag ostentatiously jutting off her Patek Philippe-trimmed arm. Hardly a damsel in distress. Everyone could quickly see the tone-deafness and ludicrousness of it all. And if not, hundreds of TikToks of people lambasting her for weeks to come certainly did the informing. That likely hasnât happened here because people havenât personally yet seen the event occur with their own eyes or ears.
Even more, hasnât this story only been partially told? For it is one thing to say this horrible wordâŚbut it then becomes a whole other thing when you realize that she herself placed this slur out into the world as part of her twice-weekly âentertainmentâ to her â3 million+ viewing audience.â It also then becomes a whole other thing to then deny it, making up a ridiculous story (mongrel/dog) about it. But isnât it more galling that one would choose to showcase themselves saying such a word, decide to place it in a video, and then also use it as a core part of their âteaserâ & advertising, broadcasting it, not just once, but 2 times in 1 day?
Thanks to @Julia123, this IG Story/video that Julia thoughtfully saved and shared (reposted below), before it was scrubbed, could be that evidential âpièce de resistance.â Sadly, this video has seen less light of day than the vlog snippetâand because of this, she has gotten away with much more.
This is the video that everyone needs to see.
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For if you watch/rewatch it, you can easily see:
1. In thisâyet another video of HER OWN MAKING, she once again uses this awful word around the :09 mark.
2. By this teaser videoâs mere existence, unknowingness of the slur cannot be feigned, nor does the âI would never use this word to offend anyoneâ hold much weight, because this word/moment was obviously pinpointed, selected and reviewedâor how else did it magically make its way into a new 24-second teaser video? This wasnât the slurâs original or only iteration. It was the SECOND TIME this slur was selected and broadcast that day.
3. And this videoâwith its undeniable âteaserâ/advertising formatâis not only proof that it happened, but it is worse because she and her team chose to highlight this slur moment. So, one can naturally conclude they must somehow be fond of it because it was selected above nearly all elseâout of all the other available 3,930 seconds in this whopping 1 hour, 6-minute vlog. This slur moment must have been deemed to have been that good, worthy, funny, or entertaining to take on such prominence and what they felt was needed to help âannounce & sellâ the videoâs upload and arrival to YouTube Monday evening. Otherwise, it too would have been on the cutting room floor with the other remaining 65 ½ minutes.
4. This video also confirms that she & her team must have no issue with the slur, because they decided to only draw further attention to it, by placing hyperlinks and the words âWATCH NOWâ immediately underneath. So again, they must have believed that it was positive and would serve as âgood advertisingâ and âcatnipâ to help draw in audiences.
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5. She also doubled-down on ownership of this slur moment by choosing to proudly affix her name, logo and brand beneath it as well. Nothing demonstrates oneâs ownership of something more than this.
6. Even worse, when you just read the transcribed words of this âteaser videoâ, it becomes more incredulous why someone would do this, piecing it together as they did, with accompanying sounds and words that could potentially be seen as continuing, aiding or further speaking to the slur word that she just used. Is she impersonating people who have disabilities? Is she ridiculing them? Why did she just call herself or someone else "a complete m*ong"? The editing is so bad that it makes absolutely no sense. The potential misunderstandings and meanings one could construe from this are both astonishingly stupid and senseless.
The transcribed words of the second half of this video:
- âA complete m*ng!â
- âBetter!â
- âOK, weâre happy about this! Great, fantastic!â
- âWooooh oooohâ
- âUh-huh! Yaayyyy!â
- âChutney makingâ
- âChicken pooâ
- âWooooh ooooohâ
- âHa ha haâ
- âHell-raiserâ
- âFrom this to thisâ
- âGood ooooohâŚâ
The squealing, âchicken pooâ and âhellraiserâ are all horrible on their own. No true professional, no true lady, nor any true author with any emotional intelligence or class would publish such garbage. It is silly, juvenile and crude.
If only the general public, Petty Moi/Tiktok, the media or even Shabaz Says saw this teaser videoâwhere they could not only see her saying these words, in an edit of her own makingâwith her name, branding & promotion proudly all over it, and with all the other gibberish they chose to place alongside the slur, things might be viewed in a new light.
That this was likely no mistake.
That there is ownership.
No embarrassment on her or her teamâs part in creating, broadcasting or promoting thisâand that they did so not just once, but 2 times that day.
That this slur was advertising-worthy to her and her team.
Worthy of placing her name and brand alongside it too.
Without remorse.
And when called out, it was met with indifference and denial.
Then a reluctant removal of the offense, but only when pressured. Not because of true regret, self-awareness or desired self-correction.
And as of this moment, still never sincerely apologizing or stopping to think about any real hurt this may have caused.
Life has just moved onâŚ.business as usual, for her.
All this, coming from this ânew, wiser personâ she claims to have become, thanks to all the "important lessons she learnedâ from Savoygate just a few short months ago.
And unbelievably doing this 2 weeks prior to her âself-pennedâ bookâs debut, where she plans to showcase this very ânewfound wisdomâ that she believes the world also needs, and hopes will hungrily fall at her feet forâpreferably for her hand-signed copies, of course.
And doing this just days after she once again, with tears streaming down her face, begged to see more kindness in the world and for people to do better.
It is all together mind-boggling and deeply disturbing.
She would rather convey to 'the masses' that she has copious amounts of land to portray she's rich, which is more important to her, than the safety of her animals.Iâm still surprised the animals are trying to escape the bunga like little 4 legged runaways. You would think that since she was so heartbroken about lynx she would make sure the dogs were properly contained
Oh. I've only got one pair of LK bennett shoes - monroe court - and they are like slippers. Most comfortable shoes ever.If itâs any consolation lk bennett shoes are sometimes quite stiff and uncomfortable. The wedges are comfy but Iâve found the leather shoes to be uncomfortable.