She shows no wish to ever be a culture vulture or even show any curiosity for her surroundings. All she seems interested in is a mirror and an echo chamber and accessories. If it’s not to do with her or if it’s not about her then it’s of no interest to her. My teachers would have called her a deliberate dullard and naturally lazy. There was clearly little cultural stimulus as she was growing up. This is also reflected in her unsophisticated palette…
This is sooo on point and so sad at the same time… So many ppl struggling, and those who are not and are still able to save up or have tons of money to go on holidays still manage to research and visit main historical monuments, places of interest, etc. It really bothers me that she doesn’t. She has not desire to cultivate herself cos, as you correctly deduce, she and only she is the only thing worth of interest to herself. And she only surrounds herself with enablers that keep up that façade/ilusion, and kicks to the curb and bashes anyone or anything that is not enabling. And she calls this disfunction ‘standing up for myself’, when it is mere delusion and a proper qualified therapist would call it for what it is and try to help her. But we all know a narcissist would never seek any real help, she’d rather go to this life coach to add another enabler to her life just to continue to justify herself. As she’s always done and always will. A narcissist will never ever be a functional or empathetic human being, she has no room for that in her mind that is filling to the brims with just herself.
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Yes you’re right. She doesn’t take care of her things regardless of what they are. I always pack using two shoe bags -one for each shoe so they don’t get damaged in one bag.
This unsanitary practice of Lydia when packing is one of my biggest pet peeves, as in how do you pack your shoes with soles that are inherently filthy, everyone’s are just from walking, and not use a shoe cover. That’s why they always include them when you buy them. That is the purpose of shoe bags or covers. Only a filthy person with filthy habits, as Lydia has amply demonstrated many times over, would pack in such a manner. Argh, I could throw up if my clothes were mixed up with dirty soles. She also demonstrates this filthy shoe habit when showing shoes to the camera and handling them with her hands touching the soles as it is the most normal thing to do: to get that filth in your hands to thereafter touch your nose multiple times as she does. It is utterly disgusting, really
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If only there were an app that could tell you the weather on another city before you go there…
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Yes, I forgot about the box coming over, so perhaps I am wrong.
I would really need to analyze that tick tock again to really be sure it is a real one. This link just takes you to tick tock directly and I have not one. I know it was posted here before without having to watch it directly on tick tock, but cannot find it. I remember thinking at the time, when I first saw it, that it was still a bit suss.
Came across her infamous Savoy video but didn't realise the scale of her narcissism until I read here.... I just have 1 question, does she really live this old money country lifestyle or is it all a sham? Is the money for all the Kelly bags hers? She dresses like she's a scullery maid in Downtown Abbey half the time and my gut instinct was that she's married up the way but I'm not sure
