What complete bullshit. I’m sorry but the only reason you’re keeping your relationship private is because you know the backlash you’ll get after you made a video slating him, talking about how he used you for money, cheated on you etc. It’s nothing to do with you being better than not needing public appreciation, it’s that you know a lot of your followers will ask wtf you’re doing after you told them to not accept crappy behaviour from crappy partners and you can’t deal with being asked that because it’ll make you face the reality that you’ve fucked up by taking him back