He was on his way to running the family business and she works at a giant retail chain. She could have got a transfer but I doubt that even entered her mind.
i feel she is just using him until someone else comes along as she doesn't want to he single and wants to act like she has it all together.
He had to give up his flat, family m, job and so on and for what? To live with her. Poor guy. Unless she is totally different to what we see, he will be seriously running after her and will not be an equal relationship. She will also have to learn to share food and not be so greedy and actually think of someone else for once.
Or they could have moved half way between places. I just feel she does the big tearful moments and that will easily sway him and get him to do whatever she wants.
It is all very rushed and I do think they should have thought about it first before they committed to this.
As for never making an effort, I used to think that too, but then I thought it would be because he had his own place at the time and they wanted privacy. He did visit her a few times where they stayed in a hotel and one time a night with her family. The gifts, well, depends what he could afford, I know he once bought her a jumper and a few other items? For Christmas I think?
Then flowers for her birthday? OK, could have got her something else, but he remembered and who knows why he got her flowers and not something else instead.
He does seem to treat her alot, cooks for her (ok it was in his flat, but she could have helped)
He seems to pull his weight in other ways.
Everyone entitled to their own opinion of course
and I am not his biggest fan btw, just that girl, jeeez, she has alot of people easily fooled with this nicer than nice attitude.
In all honesty, I dont think they will last.
Too much like siblings from what I've seen. No chemistry. Everything so awkward and staged and seems so forced and unnatural?
Only time will tell. They might surprise us all and actually last