It’s given her a lot of content thoughLouise needs trauma therapy BADLY. Her life experiences have left her very bitter, very entitled and very victim minded.
I feel she must be a secret tattler who is sick of her boring contentInteresting
Yeah, I tripped over once upstairs and fell on my bedroom floor and all my family members came running upstairs and my daughter said it was a huge bang!Tbh I feel like she overreacted to her Dad’s comment. My kids obviously don’t weigh much but when they jump off their beds or something it feels like the house shakes. She just loves a reason to attack her Dad online
She certainly still holds major resentment towards her Dad. Honestly, I don't blame her BUT that should be kept offline and dealt with in private.Tbh I feel like she overreacted to her Dad’s comment. My kids obviously don’t weigh much but when they jump off their beds or something it feels like the house shakes. She just loves a reason to attack her Dad online
i totally get WHY she still has issues with her dad, but as you say, it's stuff she needs to work through in therapy - but she won't, because therapy for Louise is about seeking validation to help her find her "sparkle", it's not about working through her trauma etc, which is a shame when she is able to access private therapy as and when she likes, in a way so many people would truly appreciate and make use of. i get that she uses dark humour as a coping mechanism, and that's fine - but it isn't the same as actually addressing the trauma and working through the resentment she - understandly - feels towards her dad. there's always the option of family therapy too, where they could properly talk with the support of a therapist - but instead she uses dark humour as a plaster and doesn't actually allow the relationship with her father to heal which, if she wants him in her life, would surely be far more beneficial.She certainly still holds major resentment towards her Dad. Honestly, I don't blame her BUT that should be kept offline and dealt with in private.
I think he seems alright and I also can’t imagine how guilty he must feel for what happened and only he knows why he started a relationship so soon after his wife died.I feel for her really, in this case. I imagine there’s a hell of a lot of complicated emotions there, WRT to her father being a link to her mum and at least making some effort to make amends but at the same time being a bit of an arsehole (just the vibes I get from him and from Louise’s stories about him). It’s not something I have any experience of (thank God) but I would never have been able to forgive him for introducing a new partner so soon after my mum died, if that was me.
Her Dad gave her trauma.I think she’s more like her dad than she realises!
She should put this in her list of accomplishments on her bio. “Ten years of free entry to the Harry Potter studios.”ANOTHER gifted studios trip.
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