Why isn’t her so called friends, or mother pointing this out?!
Cos they are all her enablers. Sunday sermon inbound!
As exemplified with old Lorna, narc’s often surround themselves with enablers ( think John, GakkedUpG’s etc) . No real true lasting friendships because they have no need to hang around when they’ve used them.
These enablers will always prioritise the narcissist's needs, wants, and feelings over their own. They go out of their way to make the narcissist happy, even at the expense of their own well-being. (John?)
While narcissists crave external validation from anyone and everything , enablers are essentially addicted to the narcissists themselves…. I believe they are recruited because narc’s only allow people into their “inner circle”. who can offer something valuable or useful to them. They will exploit the strengths, talents, and resources of others. For example, attractive people become ‘trophies,’ and those with good connections are used for their networks….( I mean Lorna literally writes the script here
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And because narc’s have this distorted version of reality where they are more successful, or attractive or respected, or important than they truly are. This false reality feels even more real to them when others ( enablers) participate in the delusion.
And this recent example of her
bleeping off with enablers, whilst her husband is terminally ill just proves every word.