I don’t get her hair at all. I have quite course wavy hair and I use heat to style it most days. I wash it every two to three days and half fry it with a hair dryer and then let it air dry and straighten it. I use Aussie 3 minute miracle once a week and leave in conditioner every time I wash it and it’s in great condition. It’s not expensive and it works. How has she not found what works for her at the age of 33. There’s no way that’s baby hair, it’s definitely breakage. I think we all need to decide what’s important to us, I don’t dye my hair, maybe Lily can’t both dye and straighten hers.