lilandlife #4 Free holidays, free kids shoes, what DOES moaning lil actually pay for?

[Catlady1]

When she was saying that stuff about stress etc I thought of course we all get it but they already knew K doesn’t cope well with stress but they still decided to put themselves and their kids through it. What all so they can say they can say they have this ‘amazing’ house exactly to their requirements etc etc. I mean it is possible not to have blazing rows. Of course K is stressed he’s not the one who’s just had a week away at their Mums going on nice days out and seeing friends. How about Lil not arguing and shutting up and powering on through.

 

[AdApathy]

God I was smacked as a kid and fucking survived. Shut up woke society.

Ah yes, how woke of us to not want to lay a hand on our kids.

 

[ohdoris]

I hope she’s a lot kinder & more tolerant to Isla this week if she is changing schools. She can’t be arsed to parent at the best of times, but she definitely needs to cut that kid some the next few weeks.

 

[ohdoris]

She very clearly suffers with depression, but her kids are also suffering because of it. She seems completely unable to cope with the most basic parenting tasks. And she has the privilege of not working a regular job like most of us, and also seemingly doesn’t have any financial worries. She’s very clear which child it is that causes her an issue, but she is a product of the environment she’s been raised in & also wasn’t given any boundaries. She alludes to the fact her & K are having a rough time at the min, she’s always moaning she’s down, unhappy, overwhelmed etc, can’t cope with the kids & does only seem to happy when she’s away from them

I feel for the kids, especially Isla. If she’s not careful she will pass these issues down to her girls, they will become a victim of their parent’s behaviours.

 

[Calmyourtitsdown]

The lounge looks absolutely fantastic. She is sooooooo lucky. Worst thing is, she really doesn’t know it.

 

[Catlady1]

Another weekend of freebie Christmas outings for her and her kids without giving anything back in life. I know she’s one of many so called influencers doing the same thing but I wish these people would realise how greedy they look and do something in return for their privileged position.
Now she’s moaning she’s got a chest infection. You’ve got a cold love who cares. We all have to power on through illnesses least you can lounge around on your sofa unlike people with actual jobs.

 

[notokhun]

I think she's said before he is happy for it to be shared.
Its actually something she does that I agree with. She's right, no one talks about it how hard these occasions are. The only things I've ever seen around football tournaments is domestic violence campaigns (definitely needed, worth while and I hope the awareness continues). But nothing around alcohol, substance abuse or even gambling which I would expect to be higher around this time. But I maybe wouldn't have been as aware without her post.

 

[InstaFamousDoesntCount]

Isla was not happy with picking a new book!

Miserable and ungrateful? Wonder who they get that from

 

[BananaRama]

Lil is the same as my sister so it is slightly triggering when I watch her stories. Picked a life with a few children, a larger house and a bf who works all the hours to funds it but has days where she cries continuously because her son won’t sleep in his own bed but won’t reinforce the rule of doing so; how it is over run by animals that she bought and wanted without them having the space to get away. Complains she doesn’t get time to herself raising children but doesn’t implement a bedtime routine or organise day clubs; moans about the state of the house but it’s no one’s responsibility to pick up see themselves and then moans about no life/social life when she sits at home everyday doing nothing but stuff online. Spends money every 2/3 days at Tesco and Aldi as well as Shein and Temu, eating out in restaurants and takeaways and buys motorbikes and quads but cries because they have no money but she won’t take the kids on holiday.
Depression isn’t sanctioned against those that have the worst life; I have a good life to an extent but do suffer myself for no other reason than I suffer but I wouldn’t even think about putting myself in a more complicated and stressful situation to overwhelm myself further. I really really want a dog but I know it will just cause me maybe more stress and I am not in a position mentally to get one, so I won’t. Alas, saving myself more grief and inconvenience.

 

[Bubbles147]

Her posts this morning - she's fucking unbelievable. Whinge, whinge, whinge. She's a mother of 3, she's always out socialising, always home in the day. So hard done by. She needs to get real.

 

[bealazu]

Having lived with and known people with addiction issues I can see how it easy it is for judgement to be made following her stories as detailed above and from the outside looking in however it really isn't as clear cut as that, when your in that situation and have children with someone addiction is difficult. There are good and bad times, it's not fluid. Watching her stories this morning really upset me as I know how that feels. Sometimes all options feel exhausting and are not do not answer or achieve the desired outcome. You sometimes feel on a never ending hamster wheel and although K is not her "responsibility" so to speak, they are in a partnership and have children together and there can be an immense association of guilt when things take a turn for the worse especially if you are not there, I have felt that and it hurts. There is a difference of moaning and expressing hurt and emotion, and she was not moaning this morning.

 

[ohdoris]

Peak selfishness today. It is frustrating being stuck indoors but my priority would have been my poorly child & not dragging her out in the cold. She posted that she had spent two days in bed when she first became ill, can’t afford the same for her 3 year old though !! She doesn’t do herself any favours at all.

 

[reallyloveagoodgossip]

Who on earth lets their children talk like this?

This is what we have to deal with in schools - badly parented children who bring their language and bad behaviour into school and think it’s okay

 

[Nosymum]

She really is the most miserable woman who has no idea how lucky she really is.

 

[Doyouknowwhatimean]

Another gifted £100+ item. When I slog my 50 hour weeks and barely stay in the green, living in a home not even worth 1/2 of hers, I am in the wrong career.

 

[Hastaggifted]

I know shes poorly but does a 3 year old need that many dummies?

She has a dummy non stop even when not poorly too though..

 

[Summer2011]

Isn’t it funny that estate agents blur the personal photos, yet we’ve seen every part of her life & could tell you where she got the pictures done and how much she paid for them. I thought it was slightly underpriced for the amount of work they’ve done, they can’t be walking away with much of a profit?

 

[Shoequeen91]

Yet she had her fendi and dior bags on show while packing 🫣

Lets not forget the Van Cleef and what looks to be the Cartier Love Bracelet that she’s wearing

Another one who is only ever hard up for money when it comes to spending it on their children

 

[Disneylover]

No wonder Kieran and his team and firing through this Reno already credit where’s credit is due to his team though, that’s an instance amount of work gone in already!

Just watched her reel, I can’t believe how much they’ve done already, that’s very impressive. Been waiting 5 years for my hubby to decorate the living room

 

[Bobbleowl90]

I’m so jealous of how much K does to the house!!