Now what in the major duck ?
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Now what in the major duck ?
if they’re not actually good friends which is how it seems surely they’d have no trouble in being sneaky and saying something like ‘omg what do you use to edit your pics, you look so different?’Her friends etc either really don't want to tell her the truth because it'll be awkward and hurt her feelings, or they enjoy her being the ugly friend and want to keep her there so they will always look better and get more attention. I honestly wouldn't know how to tackle this bur if it got this far I'd have to say something like why are you editing, spending so much time editing, or you just have to be blunt as its something she's doing so so she has to take accountability for it, it's only a problem she can fix.
I feel like they are her good friends, but just don't wanna say as its awkward in terms of Olivia she has gained from being Lidias friend so burning that bridge wouldn't make sense but atleast they met on nice normal terms. It's a horrible thought but some people keep people round from what they can gain, know that X needs them and like to have less attractive people around so they look better or aren't the butt of the joke.if they’re not actually good friends which is how it seems surely they’d have no trouble in being sneaky and saying something like ‘omg what do you use to edit your pics, you look so different?’![]()
no but for you to say that they "enjoy her being the ugly friend" is not okay. just because she is bigger does not make her "the ugly friend". in my opinion she is much prettier than maddy. do i agree with her editing her body? of course no. i think it's hilarious. and some of her outfits are veeeery bad and they do not help her figure at all but she's not ugly.Her friends etc either really don't want to tell her the truth because it'll be awkward and hurt her feelings, or they enjoy her being the ugly friend and want to keep her there so they will always look better and get more attention. I honestly wouldn't know how to tackle this bur if it got this far I'd have to say something like why are you editing, spending so much time editing, or you just have to be blunt as its something she's doing so so she has to take accountability for it, it's only a problem she can fix.
i agree. it might sound horrible but she documents herself eating pasta and protein (milk)shakes on loop, with her stature it's gonna mount up eventually. like someone said before if she documented and tried to stick at a healthier lifestyle she'd get a lot of respect and views. she can't keep hiding behind editing cos it's gonna get to a boiling point eventually. i do feel quite sad for her for the editing has gone extreme this yeari don't get why she doesn't just lose weight? i don't want that to sound crappy as i've struggled terribly badly with an ED for years, but if she edits her body to be this way then she must want to change surely? of course it's not that easy especially for people with health issues like PCOS etc but as far as we know she doesn't struggle with anything that would make weight loss more of a challenge
edited to add just in case, i obviously don't think she needs to lose weight at all, i just mean in regards to her editing
She should know better of course, and it is her own problem/insecurity to deal with, I just hope those around her are relaying the message to her softer than online does, as it mustn't be easy or nice to read.no but for you to say that they "enjoy her being the ugly friend" is not okay. just because she is bigger does not make her "the ugly friend". in my opinion she is much prettier than maddy. do i agree with her editing her body? of course no. i think it's hilarious. and some of her outfits are veeeery bad and they do not help her figure at all but she's not ugly.
I’m pretty sure Ellie.R wasn’t saying that she thinks Lidia is the ‘ugly friend’, she was saying that that’s Lidia’s friend’s perception and they definitely strike me as the kind of people that would see it that way. She’s not ugly at all and it’s a horrendous thought but when you’re not even shedding an opinion on the awful editing / totally unflattering outfits there just seems to be an ulterior motive xno but for you to say that they "enjoy her being the ugly friend" is not okay. just because she is bigger does not make her "the ugly friend". in my opinion she is much prettier than maddy. do i agree with her editing her body? of course no. i think it's hilarious. and some of her outfits are veeeery bad and they do not help her figure at all but she's not ugly.
yeah i get it, maddy and liv definitely seem like girls who are more confident when they get a lot of attention just because they're conventionally prettier and skinny. i actually think that Lidia is really pretty as well, she's just bigger which is often considered worse. beauty standards are cruel. I may have misunderstood your post, sorry for that.She should know better of course, and it is her own problem/insecurity to deal with, I just hope those around her are relaying the message to her softer than online does, as it mustn't be easy or nice to read.
But again what Lidia does is what lidia does, she's grown to know better than editing like she does, and no one can slap her wrist and make her stop until she sees herself she doesn't need to edit. Sometimes it is a case of leave people to it.
I do think lidia is fine and I don't think because she's a bit bigger she's the ugly friend or ugly, but the fact she's face apping a whole new face on I'm sorry we ain't seeing the real her half the time, only on YouTube and even that has a filter on her camera.
She's trying to fit in with her friends or this perception she thinks is desirable online, and she never posts in real time. Some of her friends etc may be classed as conventionally pretty or even get more attention/compliments, hence another reason to edit, the why not me could come into play, and because of her job as an influencer, its either be desired or be desirable, loads of likes on a pic shes edited reinforces oh maybe thats what I should look like since number wise its acceptable.
Again some friendship groups keep around friends they don't think are competition to them, a horrible thought, but not everyone has good intentions, if it makes them feel better they don't care.
Lidias confidence needs to grow ultimately, easier said than done, but when your job is being an influencer and a positive image of yourself is low, its not a good mix.
The fillers her choice, but she looked fine without them its a slippery slope, her hair - the extensions and colour sometimes it looks frazzled, again her choice, the outfits she wears never look like they fit, she looks uncomfortable always adjusting herself, and she doesn't get them tailored, but again her choice. We all have opinions on what we would or wouldnt do if we were her, but she's made them, and I guess it keeps her paid.
It's okayyeah i get it, maddy and liv definitely seem like girls who are more confident when they get a lot of attention just because they're conventionally prettier and skinny. i actually think that Lidia is really pretty as well, she's just bigger which is often considered worse. beauty standards are cruel. I may have misunderstood your post, sorry for that.
STOPP AHAHAHAHAHAH the fact it’s bothering her shows that she is aware she does it and people see itIt finally happened girls I have been blocked on insta she put a q&a up and I asked if she will ever stop editing her face and body and I’ve been blocked![]()