I know a friend of a friend can confirm they are not together, and that they are Co parenting. If you can even call it that. I get the whole keeping things a certain way for the kids but at what point does she get to LIVE like she keeps preaching in her overplayed captions. She claims she’s so happy but her whole set up screams otherwise. She should just get some self respect and leave!
That's sad for her. She proposed to a guy who only cheated and left her a single mother before the kids even turned 10. Is she also primary caregiver for his son?
Obviously I don't advocate for treating the kids differently and I can see she loves them all the same, which is amazing, but she's got a raw deal.
Especially if he's always jetting off to Antigua or wherever it is he goes.
She stays home all the time, probably sleeps with him occasionally, while doing the lion's share of housekeeping and child rearing - even for his son (depending on the set up with the mum who has never seemed to be in the picture), while he scams his way through life.
He seems like the type to flip if she ever found someone new too.