Think you've nailed it.
I had several miscarriages, but nothing late term like this. Each time I quizzed myself over and over, wondering if I should have done this, or should have done that. Wondering constantly what my babies would have been like. I hated myself for not being able to keep my baby alive long enough to survive. I felt an absolute failure, a terrible wife and partner. All my friends and family had no problems conceiving so why me? What was I doing wrong? I think this is a natural reaction.
It took 7 years to get my son and even he arrived 8 weeks early. I swear I would have stood on my head and watched Towie on repeat 24 hrs a day if it meant I could carry a baby to term, licherally. So I really, reeeeeaaaalllly don't get her response.
It's the characteristics of a narcissist though to never blame themselves. So that says it all.
Just like the media are out to get her for looking so large, or wind machines are making her look bigger than she is, not the piles she shoves in her gob, or failed lack of exercise. Just like harking back to her childhood when her mum 'didn't want her', (but her dad looked after her really well) and the constant 'poor me' over Mark split 12 years ago, she thinks makes her the person she is today and why she feels the need to shave off 5 stones from all her photos. Sadly as Ch'arge's last post says quite clearly, this is being passed onto her child.