All this psycho analysis of BYG’s childhood grates on me a bit. I had a very unconventional, at times traumatic childhood that let to daddy issues in my early 20s. My mum had bi polar when I was a kid so I lived between my dads and my nans, my dad had a couple of stints at HMP. Other stuff happened in between. I then lost him and my nana within 10 months of each other - my nana just before I was about to get married. Have a made a few shitty life choices ? Absolutely yes, do I expect people to excuse those choices because of what happened when I was a child? Absolutely fucking not! That shit is on me! I made the conscious decision to go to therapy and keep going until I had dealt with it all.
BYG is nearing 40! She should be accountable for her own actions and choices. Maybe she is just thick, entitled and not a very nice person because that is who she is. It’s not nanny cracks fault, it’s not her dad, or mark or anybody else. It’s on her