Lafedup could not give less of a tit about her. Very sad.
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6 months on and we are still only seeing LaPillow in a vest propped up in bed. By 6 months she should be babbling, rolling , attempting to crawl, beginning to sit unaided. She doesn’t even respond when being called a ‘bewful gel’. That baby needs professional signposting.
She’s meant to be 6 months old and is no more alert and responsive than a newborn.
Her voice is really bad. Painful
There is no bond between Lauren and Larose. The baby could be looking at a stranger.
She's got nothing to engage with. No eye contact, all she can see is the back of a phone. And 'giving herself kisses' ffs she's not a frickin budgie you moron.
I’m not surprised she’s so far behind. She’s either dumped in jumperoo, bouncer or car seat. Nothing against jumperoos we used one but that baby desperately needs some floor time too, interaction, stimulation, sensory toys. The first 5 years are vital in a baby life their brains are like little sponges soaking everything up. The emotional damage alone from not having a parent meet a child’s emotional needs can last well into adult hood. It’s her job as a parent to teach her baby girl emotions and how to express her self. She just looks so lost in every photo and video 
I have never seen such an expressionless baby in my entire life.
She dosent respond at all to her voice, and seems very floppy .... in all videos Ive seen, there is no bond between them, no connection, you are right ... could be a hearing issue .... as someone mentioned, you would expect this from a new born, not a baby heading for 7 months, at this stage most are over active, so amazed with their surroundings, screaming, kicking, laughing, are responsive, with this baby ... nothing .... something is definitely not right with her, we can only hope, she does get her checked out properly
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If la'tex has a hearing problem, it is the only time I would perceive it as a blessing. Imagine having to listen to the mother's crap all of the time.
I had 4 week premature twins and this has made me scroll back through my photos to remind me of how they behaved at 6 months old. They were perky, happy and trying desperately to be mobile. A world apart from this poor child.
It is really disturbing, I’ve had 2 children who reacted just like yours Twiddles11 but even if I hadn’t I’d definitely suspect some issue that needs looking at. Whether it’s nature or nurture or both.
Shouldn’t her behaviour be noticed & flagged by health visitors and doctors by now?? She was in hospital quite recently wasn’t she?
I just don’t understand tbh.
BYG will just continue to believe whatever suits her, she’s dim yes which maybe can’t be helped but her vanity and selfishness are off the scale.
Shouldn’t her behaviour be noticed & flagged by health visitors and doctors by now?? She was in hospital quite recently wasn’t she?
I just don’t understand tbh.
BYG will just continue to believe whatever suits her, she’s dim yes which maybe can’t be helped but her vanity and selfishness are off the scale.
It's just so avoidable - if lawoeful has some form of developmental delay then she needs all the support available straight away (ie months ago).
Would someone like laureen, ie pregnant and with a baby already, get thorough health checks that would include lawose?
I'd hope so but I know how few staff there are.
Is Lauren simply too self absorbed (and dim) to realise that her baby might need some short or long term support?
There's no shame in it Lauren, it just means you have an extra special baby to love, but she really would need specialist care.
Throws hands up in despair.
Greatest respect to every parent bringing up a child with extra needs.
Would someone like laureen, ie pregnant and with a baby already, get thorough health checks that would include lawose?
I'd hope so but I know how few staff there are.
Is Lauren simply too self absorbed (and dim) to realise that her baby might need some short or long term support?
There's no shame in it Lauren, it just means you have an extra special baby to love, but she really would need specialist care.
Throws hands up in despair.
Greatest respect to every parent bringing up a child with extra needs.
The last time she would of seen HV would of been 4 month check, unless she’s taking her to weigh ins / local authority led baby groups which I doubt. She would of had a couple of midwife appointments by now though too, but if Lascattercushion was in buggy or car seat there might not have been adequate time / opportunity to flag anything up.
It probably suits BYG that baby isn’t mobile ect as it gives her more of a chance to sit on her fat arse. With a typical 6 - 7 month baby you need eyes in the back of your head because they want to be mobile, exploring and are inquisitive. Larose is plonked in a jumperooo or bouncer or propped up on pillows. I think there may be hearing problems as another poster commented as she doesn’t even respond to being called bewful 100 times a day,
I agree it may be her hearing. Do you still have health visitors in the UK?
Yeah but they are pretty useless my baby 16 months and never met his health visitor. Probably due to covid. But i already have a 2 year old and 10 year old so know what to look out for. Lauren I think need some mum friends or support from someone who knows about delays. It’s nothing to be ashamed off. My 10 year old had delays and I never realised till she was 2 and at nursery. I thought she was just a normal baby but when it’s your first and you don’t have family round you with children it’s difficult.
I suppose another way to look at it is, do you think Lauren would admit publicly that there was anything up with Larose cognitively or developmentally? (Of course we are just speculating and I don't like to comment on children anyway)!
She is so self-obsessed and gets defensive when anyone (as she sees it) criticises her, I think that might be what's happening.
Giving her even more of the benefit of the doubt, she might actually have the foresight to protect Larose's privacy, to a point, though I'm doubtful she'd be coming from the "protective mum" angle.
She is so self-obsessed and gets defensive when anyone (as she sees it) criticises her, I think that might be what's happening.
Giving her even more of the benefit of the doubt, she might actually have the foresight to protect Larose's privacy, to a point, though I'm doubtful she'd be coming from the "protective mum" angle.
I don’t think she should talk about stuff like that personally. I have children with additional needs and I think it’s the child’s place to share that information if they choose to do so. I’d rather see Larose’s privacy protected if she has been diagnosed with something rather than be used for likes. It’s none of our business anyway.
Absolutely agree. I get a bit uncomfortable with the speculating about Larose sometimes (not trying to thread-police, and I know most are saying it out of concern).
I have a son with autism and adhd, we had to tell people, it helped him. Now 17 and at grammar school doing a ib. Everyone is different, but help should be asked for and provided and needed. Now my lad has no issue telling people himself of course.
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