I find this girl so strange. Followed her awhile & liked her but I feel like she’s the girl in the night club trying to get her ex’s attention - telling about sex, periods, poo - vibrators , yes we all have a sister or bestie we confide in of course but without being a prude nobody wants to talk about that stuff on insta. She can claim to be breaking down taboos all she likes !!! I think it’s vile . It’s just all attention seeking & I have to think the attention isn’t from you or me that she’s seeking ?
To an extent, I think it is important that issues like this are normalised and spoken about publicly without the attached shame that we've inherited from generations of Catholics. The more people talk, the more we know what's normal, what isn't, promoting menstrual products, indicators we may need to see a doctor, etc., y'know? And also, normalising that women's sexual pleasure and comfort are just as important as 3 minute Jizzy Jim, along with trying to end the concept of a 'slut'.
HOWEVER! She has gone beyond normalising and in to the bracket of glorifying, and making me (who you can probably tell is not a prude in the least from that above, lol) feel uncomfortable. I actually had to unfollow her. I have nothing against women posting thirst traps, you do you, hun; but if your page is primarily an 'influencer' audience, it just seems completely misaligned.
I fully respect that you may not feel the same way and have no judgment towards you if you don't feel comfortable talking about topics like that.