There are times in your life where you have to dot the i's and cross the t's. You have to suck things up and bite your tongue when all you want to do is scream and shout. This is the time that she needs to keep shush, go to every available contact, keep her opinions on her family under wraps and keep a low profile. That's the only way she will get more contact. No matter if her family are in the wrong, shouting and screaming about it and bringing it upto Lewis is not the right thing to do, telling all of tiktik is not the thing to do.. Composure is what's needed here and going above and beyond for another 30 day is all she needed to do but she's letting it get to her and lashing out, proving her family's points for them.