KilesCookie
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Susan sarcastically saying she’ll be sure to get him into therapy because she controls his whole life is laughable. While he might be nearing 30 and yes, of course parents don’t have control over their kids by that point, there ARE things she and the family can do.
1) Stop enabling his disgusting behavior by defending his every move. To her credit, Alexa does seem to have “elected” to stop defending her brother’s every move but Susan has not.
2) Stop subsidizing his life. If he can’t afford something, that’s on him, stop bailing him out. Maybe then he’ll stop blowing money on frivolous purchases like Disney Halloween decorations and Tito’s and start prioritizing better spending habits. He still doesn’t have a place to properly sit and eat a meal at for “Pete’s” sake.
3) Stop simultaneously acting like their son is an adult while still babying him. They act like he’s a full fledged adult online with the “hatters” but then turn around and constantly treat him like a child. When they visit, they pay for everything. There was even once, I think when the entire family (the Pallos and Susan’s sister’s family) was there and Alexa bought her own meal, Kile’s meal was in the same order his parents bought.
4) While they can’t put him into therapy by force, they CAN sit down and talk with him about going on his own accord. On the family cruise livestream, him and Alexa got into an argument over mental health and how big he is about its importance on the channel. In reality, he uses “mental health” to manipulate his family and doesn’t actually do anything to try and improve it. His family falls for it hook, line, and sinker too because he gave a look across the table to his parents during the argument and suddenly Alexa changed topics. I’m assuming Susan mouthed “stop it” or did something else to shut Alexa up.
Of course, all of that takes effort and from what’s been shown from his family, they don’t like effort. They could let him do his own thing and when he inevitably fails at it, always welcome him a spot at their house until he gets back on his feet but I don’t think they want him back. They’d rather chastise the hatters for “ruining” his career and shove Kile off to his new mommy Casey. He just “wears them down” when he’s there, remember?![Face with rolling eyes :rolling_eyes: 🙄](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f644.png)
1) Stop enabling his disgusting behavior by defending his every move. To her credit, Alexa does seem to have “elected” to stop defending her brother’s every move but Susan has not.
2) Stop subsidizing his life. If he can’t afford something, that’s on him, stop bailing him out. Maybe then he’ll stop blowing money on frivolous purchases like Disney Halloween decorations and Tito’s and start prioritizing better spending habits. He still doesn’t have a place to properly sit and eat a meal at for “Pete’s” sake.
3) Stop simultaneously acting like their son is an adult while still babying him. They act like he’s a full fledged adult online with the “hatters” but then turn around and constantly treat him like a child. When they visit, they pay for everything. There was even once, I think when the entire family (the Pallos and Susan’s sister’s family) was there and Alexa bought her own meal, Kile’s meal was in the same order his parents bought.
4) While they can’t put him into therapy by force, they CAN sit down and talk with him about going on his own accord. On the family cruise livestream, him and Alexa got into an argument over mental health and how big he is about its importance on the channel. In reality, he uses “mental health” to manipulate his family and doesn’t actually do anything to try and improve it. His family falls for it hook, line, and sinker too because he gave a look across the table to his parents during the argument and suddenly Alexa changed topics. I’m assuming Susan mouthed “stop it” or did something else to shut Alexa up.
Of course, all of that takes effort and from what’s been shown from his family, they don’t like effort. They could let him do his own thing and when he inevitably fails at it, always welcome him a spot at their house until he gets back on his feet but I don’t think they want him back. They’d rather chastise the hatters for “ruining” his career and shove Kile off to his new mommy Casey. He just “wears them down” when he’s there, remember?
![Face with rolling eyes :rolling_eyes: 🙄](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f644.png)