It gets me that she says she cant leave her cry etc! Like every child who does sleep has been left to cry!
She blames BF but I BF my son and he still slept. She says she can't stop feeding because Roma doesn't understand (even though she is a genius baby who knows 1-20, her ABCs and the bleeping capital of all Countries!!) But she has to be strict!
We do have TV before bed some nights, once its finished my son switches the TV off and walks to the stairs because that's the routine! Other times we do stories and then he walks to the stairs. Hes learned through repeated actions what comes next! Pjs, milk, story or TV and bed! Once hes in his room he doesnt come out that evening, if hes upset I give him a kiss and say night night, if I have to repeat that 20 times so be it, I win in the end! (4am is a different matter but he does most of the night in his room)
She needs to be consistent! Unfortunately shes not consistent at anything!