Having a baby for someone else - It can work. But only once you accept it, and learn to embrace it.
If they want to promote their bad parenting all over social media for half a million people and then go on to complain about it - yeah - if the hat fits..I complain about aspects of parenting sometimes.
Doesn’t make me a tit parent.
I know I’m lucky to have my children, and I know that there are millions of people that would absolutely love the opportunity to be able to complain about the things that I complain about.
That doesn’t change the fact that sometimes I’m not down for being 100% on it.
We see what she shows us. Yes, she seems to have a lot of time away from Noa, and it’s not the route I went down, but loads of people do choose that. I know of people who bottle fed from the off, which enabled them to have their baby stay overnight at their grandparents house right from the off. There are people who are up for a night out a fortnight after they give birth.
Are we labelling them tit too?
ok. Interesting.If they want to promote their bad parenting all over social media for half a million people and then go on to complain about it - yeah - if the hat fits..
Literally no one has said or implied that.It’s basically saying that they wouldn’t give a tit if their child died, because they spend time away from her.
i don’t get the need.
The comparison implies that if the shoe was on the other foot, Kate and Boj would not behave in the same way.Literally no one has said or implied that.
No it doesn’t. The comparison was between 2 families, one who has been very loving and positive and one who has complained about every little thing. That’s doesn’t mean that the person who compared them thinks that Kate wouldn’t care if her baby died. That’s disgusting.The comparison implies that if the shoe was on the other foot, Kate and Boj would not behave in the same way.
I find the whole comparison disgusting.No it doesn’t. The comparison was between 2 families, one who has been very loving and positive and one who has complained about every little thing. That’s doesn’t mean that the person who compared them thinks that Kate wouldn’t care if her baby died. That’s disgusting.
I think you’re twisting the words of the original poster. Kate and Boj are palming their child off to anyone who will have her. Not just for the odd few hours here and there, it’s 3 nights a week, every week since Noa was born.I find the whole comparison disgusting.
Parents with a healthy child act differently than parents with a terminally ill child - what a shock! I’m bowing out of the conversation regarding the grief of those parents and the loss of the baby, the use of them to make a point makes me want to go take a shower.
If you want to make a direct comparison, let’s look at when Baby A was first diagnosed and and received treatment. (They later ‘rang the bell’ but, alas, it wasn’t to be and the leukaemia returned) The parents of Baby A spent many nights in hospital with their child and not ONCE did they post about how tired they were. I read every post about that poor child and the parents never made it about themselves and at this point they did not know the disease was terminal.I find the whole comparison disgusting.
Parents with a healthy child act differently than parents with a terminally ill child - what a shock! I’m bowing out of the conversation regarding the grief of those parents and the loss of the baby, the use of them to make a point makes me want to go take a shower.
it can be your comparison, but like I said, not one I’m willing to makeIf you want to make a direct comparison, let’s look at when Baby A was first diagnosed and and received treatment. (They later ‘rang the bell’ but, alas, it wasn’t to be and the leukaemia returned) The parents of Baby A spent many nights in hospital with their child and not ONCE did they post about how tired they were. I read every post about that poor child and the parents never made it about themselves and at this point they did not know the disease was terminal.
Kate’s baby was admitted to hospital 3 times in the first few weeks of her life and on EVERY SINGLE update, we got “I’m exhausted and need to sleep” “I just want to go home” (I am quoting her posts verbatim here). Even when she said “the doctors think we might be able to go home” she had to throw in a quick “I’m so tired” at the end.
And THAT right there is your comparison.