He’s kinda making it seem like Kate is the problem even though she clearly wants commitment?!
No wonder these two can’t bloody sort their tit out! 
Kate is better off single in my opinion if after 2 years it’s still this complicated and they’re not on the same page. But how horrible for Kate to read that though when she couldn’t be asking for commitment more if she tried. ‘Solidified’ that has rubbed me the wrong way aswell when Kate clearly wants to be! 
I hope she see’s sense and bins him for good.EXACTLY THISHe’s kinda making it seem like Kate is the problem even though she clearly wants commitment?!
Yikes. He always tries to make himself come across as humble and down to earth but he sometimes sounds so arrogant. If someone I was seeing for two years was talking about our situation like that I’d be outta there. Poor Kate
Imagine having a girl like Kate dating you and still not being able to keep it in your pants. What is wrong with the world ffs.
Cloat chaser on TikTok doesn’t mean much or any credibility. A private message can be easily photoshopped & he is a easy target in Ireland. Lots of similar crap on TikTok about others - fantasy fan stuff/ in jokes. Probably has deleted it when realised other people were taking it seriously. Don’t think he would ever be that stupid to ruin a 2 year relationship on a whim, why bother wasting his own time invested. Especially after all the hate he got after Love Island will know eyes will be on him. He gave Kate a Cartier love ring in Paris only a few weeks before then, so it wouldn’t make sense timewise. ( Plus he is usually in London until Sunday morning flights back to Dublin so not there for main bar nights out.) Greg could’ve got a gf in Ireland & had a easy relationship throughout the pandemic but didn’t, as he must want to be with Kate to a persue a stressful long distance romance during covid restrictions.
I don’t particularly agree. I’ve known men/guys who string women along for their own control and satisfaction in situations where you wouldn’t expect them too. Just because he brought her a Cartier love ring doesn’t mean anything, men buy expensive things for women all the time to try and keep them sweet. And we don’t really know what Greg is really like. I don’t really understand what he wants and needs since Kate is desperate for more commitment and reassurance and she’s clearly not getting it which makes his answers to those two questions extremely confusing. I don’t think Kate is asking for a public commitment at all, I think she just wants a steady relationship after investing 2 years of her life with a guy who seems quite flakey and unsettled. And I don’t understand what he means by ‘solidified’ as Kate would clearly love to be that for him but he’s not allowing her to be for whatever reason. She’s the one always in London and he’s the one flying back and forth all the time, I think he’s the one who’s not solidified not Kate! Men (not all, but a lot) are always trying to shift any blame off themselves onto women and it’s tiring.
what more does this guy want? She needs to r u n tbhI either can’t find it or she’s deleted it! She didn’t tag or hashtag Greg’s name so wouldn’t be easy to find. She’s screenshoted all her chats, not just his individual chat so don’t think it would have been as easy to photoshop!
Totally agree with this. Plus don’t believe some random wannabe on TikTok, as there has been no dirt on Greg in over 2 yrs since Love island. Dublin is very small & people gossip so if he was a fuckboy, he would’ve been exposed long ago. Chats are very easy to photoshop. Only thing once was when a viral video went round of a Italian footballer shagging in a niteclub toilet & people were saying he looked like Greg.
If they’ve seriously built such strong foundations and loyalty then I don’t understand how they’re still this confused and unstable? Clearly something isn’t working if they still can’t make it work after all this time. Kate made it very clear she doesn’t know where the relationship is going and what the future holds so not exactly a strong relationship if they’re not communicating with each other properly. And if the fact Greg lives in Dublin and Kate lives in London is the problem then surely that’s always going to be a problem unless someone moves? Why would you agree to be long distance if you know the distance was going to cause a problem. I feel they were both hoping things would be better once the pandemic calmed a little so they could finally see each other regularly but clearly that’s not quite the case and they’re still up and down so the pandemic clearly wasn’t the only hurdle in their way. If a relationship hasn’t made any progress with the original issues after 2 years to the point you still don’t know what’s going on or where you stand then I’m afraid you’re really going to have to reconsider it. No point wasting time with someone who’s not ready to commit or isn’t on the same page as you. You do have to put your own happiness, needs and worth first.Totally agree with this. Plus don’t believe some random wannabe on TikTok, as there has been no dirt on Greg in over 2 yrs since Love island. Dublin is very small & people gossip so if he was a fuckboy, he would’ve been exposed long ago. Chats are very easy to photoshop. Only thing once was when a viral video went round of a Italian footballer shagging in a niteclub toilet & people were saying he looked like Greg.
I read his replies differently on his opinion on long distance relationships as they are the former rather the latter option- as in they must deeply care & both be fully committed to each other to have kept working at it for 2 years long distance, which has built a “seriously strong foundations & loyalty” over this time. Both persevered with it despite the stop start difficulties & travel restrictions. Both could’ve had straightforward relationships in their home cities instead, so must count for something. It goes without saying in the latter opinion, if you’re just messing & not serious to fully commit, it would be no point starting any long distance relationship at all. Hence plenty of fish comment. Didn’t interpret it as blaming her for anything, more he’s subtly pointing out what they’ve achieved despite the stress of long distance. Men only string along the easiest sex option & not waste their own time on complicated long distance romances. He did say when ended it with Amber, he wouldn’t stay in any relationship if he didn’t see a future together so ends it before it gets too deep & anyone gets hurt.
With any long distance relationship, one person has to move permanently for it ultimately solidify it long term. Kate’s not going to move to Dublin, so he has to change his whole life for it & only retired in Aug, so it will take a little time to focus on his career & have the money to move to London full time. In another answer said all the travelling every few days was effecting his mental health maybe he’s struggling atm - many athletes find it hard transitioning away from the sport they love & routine as it’s a big change in lifestyle. We don’t know the full picture of their lives. It’s Kate’s decision whether she feels he’s the One and worth being patience for a bit longer to get the public commitment she clearly wants & deserves or not. Relationships are complicated not as simple to just run away as soon as any frustrations or bumps happen. By 26 /27 you’re dating for marriage men included. Maybe too soon for everyone here to write them or him off completely, let’s see as time will tell if they can make it or will end it. Wish Kate every happiness & he would be mad to let her go now.
Yeah, money maybe a big issue at the moment but it will level up in time. Important for long term future to want same type of lifestyle & expectations.
Looks like Kate is at home in London. I’d be surprised if they were on good terms right now to be able to go away together after Greg said he just wants to concentrate on himself right now.
