John_deedee

[twinkleunicorn]

So he’s on live now saying he can’t work because it costs too much for care. People are telling him that if he goes to work, he will get help via social workers etc. he’s having none of it!! She’s too complex etc…her adult life has been taken away by them…no John it’s your fault! Yea you have to contribute to direct payments, this amount decreases at age 25, but even so…this is for her well being, for her social activities! She deserves a life of her own too!

 

[beebee789]

I hope Social Work are aware of this thread. How is he getting away with allowing convicted Sex Offenders in the house with a vulnerable young woman? The mind boggles.

 

[Sparkle76]

He has literally just changed her top on live! If she had the capability and understanding like he claims, surely she wouldn’t want to be exposed to thousands of viewers like that! He’s rambling on about it being her time of the month again, sure he only said that a week or so ago… he’s very very weird and I wouldn’t be shocked if he was abusing her. He gives off serious

He's absolutely disgusting with changing her top on live and going on about her period to loads of viewers, that man does not sit right with me at all.

 

[Allie101]

I'd love to open the social services notes on their chaotic life.

 

[HarryToby]

I've just seen a video on his page from a trip to Gullivers land, a theme park, and he only went and put Dee Dee on one of the big rides that spins you around and upside down! What the fuck is that about? That can't be safe for somebody with brain damage and daily seizures?

I have a brain aneurysm and have to avoid anything that raises my heart rate and BP, I know that's different from Dee Dee's condition but brain injury is brain injury and somebody with a brain injury shouldn't be getting flung around upside down should they. The man is a fucking idiot.



Hopefully the link works.

Edit: just watched the rest of the video and you can hear him behind the camera saying "you watch, she'll come off crying but then ill say do you want to go on it again and she'll say ye"

IF YOU THINK SHE WILL COME OFF CRYING AND SEND HER ON ANYWAY THEN THAT SAYS IT ALL JOHN, YOU PIECE OF SHIT.

 

[Ginge89]

He’s so sexy

 

[twinkleunicorn]

I’ve reported the seizure video again. It’s not raising awareness, as he’s claimed previously,
it’s exposing a young woman in a vulnerable state, who cannot consent!

 

[Guyana1976]

Breaks my heart for deedee. She has no concept on people watching her from home. Strangers. No informed consent. Talking about shaving her privates , her periods, her bowel movements . It is all unfair. Dignity. Privacy. Protection.
Doing a live with a fully naked man in the bath - both deedee and John. A man who did revenger porn.
Talking about her previous sexual abuse with strange men.....to strangers (some men) and how she would touch herself. It is so wrong. Poor Deedee.
Making a new tiktok every time his gets pulled as a safeguarding risk....how is that acceptable??? Avoiding social services and openly telling 2k viewers....how is that acceptable?

He's disgusting, he has no idea about the people who come on his lives,he's not protecting his daughter,I'm so fed up seeing people on Tik Tok using their disabled kids as cash machines,there's that Muslim woman with the down syndrome girl who just sits her in front of a camera all day and wonders why she's not walking or talking

 

[Guyana1976]

Too many people on Til Tok using their disabled kids for ££££

 

[JellyWobbles]

I was watching some of a live the other week and he was saying that he shares a bath with her, someone asked if he wore shorts an he said no because she doesn’t no what a Willy is I felt sick! Did anyone else see this?

Are you fucking kidding me?

I was watching some of a live the other week and he was saying that he shares a bath with her, someone asked if he wore shorts an he said no because she doesn’t no what a Willy is I felt sick! Did anyone else see this?

This is DISGUSTING. Sharing a bath is far farrrr too intimate! My daughter is 10, and I’ve previously said she’s severely disabled. Even my husband now lets me see to her personal care pretty much because boundaries and dignity? But even when he does help, it’s never ever come to that! She has a shower, he is fully clothed because it just isn’t necessary.. why would you share a shower/bath? What the hell?!!! This guy is soooooo dodgy it’s unreal

 

[crazycatlady193]

I've just seen a video on his page from a trip to Gullivers land, a theme park, and he only went and put Dee Dee on one of the big rides that spins you around and upside down! What the fuck is that about? That can't be safe for somebody with brain damage and daily seizures?

I have a brain aneurysm and have to avoid anything that raises my heart rate and BP, I know that's different from Dee Dee's condition but brain injury is brain injury and somebody with a brain injury shouldn't be getting flung around upside down should they. The man is a fucking idiot.



Hopefully the link works.

Edit: just watched the rest of the video and you can hear him behind the camera saying "you watch, she'll come off crying but then ill say do you want to go on it again and she'll say ye"

IF YOU THINK SHE WILL COME OFF CRYING AND SEND HER ON ANYWAY THEN THAT SAYS IT ALL JOHN, YOU PIECE OF SHIT.

I agree, I highly doubt a ride like that is appropriate for someone like Dee. It would be a massive seizure trigger for a start but add in the fact she has an epilepsy-induced brain injury and it’s a recipe for disaster. Dee doesn’t have the capacity to understand if the ride is suitable, she has no ability to understand the consequences of going on such a ride and I genuinely don’t even think she has the ability to understand what she is agreeing to when she “communicates” her wish to go on a ride like that. John is her father and the person with the power to make decisions on her behalf but as always he is selfish and willingly putting his vulnerable daughter at risk yet again. I’d like to say I’m surprised by all of this but unfortunately I’m not.

 

[Allie101]

So taking her to the zoo to see some koalas would be too much for deedee but taking her to Austrailia would be okay.
He also said that some guy set up the gofund me and now John cannot get hold of him through tiktok or through email he also can't find out any information from gofundme as it's in the man's name....some bloke he met online
So how will he access the funds?

 

[youve got to be joking!]

So I've heard about the GFM it's terrible and I see John has made another one where the money will go straight into his account. My question is, why does he need all this money? I'm not mean but he's gifted constantly daily for hours, we have seen how much can be made from the people that have been talked about on Tattle. He never takes Dee out does he and she's normally dressed in an outfit bought by a fan. Finally although I have lots more I want to say, what did he do before Tictok in fact what did any of them do.

My thoughts exactly! The new GFM page was set up 3 weeks ago but yet John is only now making a post about the last one, surely this post should have been done straight away when all this first happened. There is no investigation by the sounds of it as he said he hasn’t heard anything from police etc so I’m intrigued as to why the post now?? For a man who says constantly he’s only on TikTok for awareness and to make people happy and that he doesn’t want or ask for anything then now having 2 GFM pages in his name ( someone else also going to do a page for him also ) he certainly is not discouraging people from setting them up and from donating which I would think would be a decent thing to do.
It seems this man is just greedy and out for what he can gain from the public using his disabled daughter to achieve this! As was stated in previous post he cannot be struggling financially as I’m sure he gets all the appropriate benefits for Deedee, her clothes are bought from fans and he also receives some clothing himself and tbh I wouldn’t think his shopping bill either is very costly as he lives on chicken/rice he says and Deedee is liquid fed so again when you take all that into account as this is what he chooses to share daily then why on earth would he keep on taking money from complete strangers if he was this amazing and honourable man….

 

[Ginge89]

 

[JellyWobbles]

I don't know why he makes her sit on live with him. She may enjoy it so a short time would be fine. But why not go live when she is settled for the night in bed. It's all for sympathy and gifts he exploits her in my opinion. Just gives me creep vibes. Like is it an account to raise awareness for your daughter's condition and raising a disabled child. Or is it for him to flex his muscles and get attention

its 100% exploitation

Just found this thread today and so glad I did I knew I couldn’t be the only one who had these same views and opinions on this man. I’m sorry to say but I think he’s vile and exploits his daughter to the hilt from the posts and lives he does he totally controls Deedee, he says she is the boss and It’s her who wants to be on TikTok. Deedee is always looking at him for instruction on what to do on the posts he makes. He’s mentioned on his lives In front of deedee about her crying next thing Deedee starts crying and he by the way is shocked by this and tells her to stop! Deedee hangs off every word he says. There’s so many things to pick up from this man what he says and how he is is questionable in my eyes saying they were abused by his ex even to the point of sleeping in the park! Why would he allow that anyway when your daughter is disabled? He really paints a very bad picture about deedees mum and yes it could be 100% true we will never know but from a man that was totally traumatised from this relationship to what he seems to be now, doing calendars, a small acting part, coming on a social media platform half naked most times, putting a wish list on, go fund me page and showing his disabled daughter of for gifts just doesn’t add up to be this overly confident in that short space of time. There is no one who is going to say any different Deedee certainly can’t and he doesn’t have anyone else there with them to say differently to him. It’s like he doesn’t want anyone else there just him and Deedee as he has total control then. There are just so many red flags with this man, can fool some but not everyone.

I completely agree. Deedee really shouldn’t be on TT, she is vulnerable and cannot consent, she is mentally a child. It’s not appropriate, she absolutely does look to her Dad for cues.
I also get really bad feeling about the amount of (physical) gifts she is receiving I say this as, she doesn’t understand fully and it’s clear to see. She becomes extremely upset if a parcel is opened and it’s for John, she has learnt to almost expect every parcel is a gift for her and I just think it’s unfair on her and what it’s teaching/it won’t be forever it’s not always for her etc.

I actually hope DHB gets on his case but I bet he won’t, people are too scared

 

[sassy666666]

Why does he need to ‘shave her private parts’??? Wtf, that’s just very weird and very worrying. I don’t like him, gut instincts are usually right too.

 

[My2pWorth]

I noticed that as well, I thought why film with her there then! He said social services think they have a 'too close of a relationship'. When will he realise its not him being a dad that is a problem, its because he speaks inappropriately about her to thousands of people and she has no privacy or social life.

 

[Guyana1976]

He's always stating Dee Dee's an adult he shouldn't be bathing with her,he shouldn't be attending to her personal hygiene,he shouldn't be discussing her personal history with complete strangers and he does need looking into.

 

[JellyWobbles]

I actually can’t believe johns got a go fund me going for a bloody holiday! It’s weeks after Christmas for christs sake! He should save up like the rest of the world have too. What’s he spend all the money he gets from gifts on?! Put that to a holiday maybe? Absolutely ridiculous the more he pops on my fyp the more I can’t stand him. How’s he gunna cope abroad he can’t even take her out the house for a walk

This is my thoughts exactly.
How would he cope? The insurance alone would be astronomical. Then there’s the fact he does fuck all with her, or is this going to be a holiday where he brings his other daughter to mind her while he enjoys the holiday more like? I’m so sick of people quite obviously begging and using their child to get what they (the adult) want. It’s different if it’s equipment or something but….

also she gets so so many gifts and he must know there’s vulnerable people on TT not too far alike to DeeDee that will spend their money on them.. it happens so much!

 

[Guyana1976]

Yes well that would be more practical given Deedees condition. I think there’s a bit more to it why he seems so keen on getting to Australia when clearly there are places he could take his daughter to for a little holiday/break closer without having to put her through the ordeal of travelling to the other side of the world

Flying to Australia for an non disabled person is stressful enough

Yes absolutely and I agree would love DHB to get onto it as he says it how it is and give him his due is pretty spot on this father gives no dignity to his disabled 20 year old daughter from telling everyone on lives mostly over a 1000 people she’s on her period and he shaves her personal parts… really is that something we need to know? Is that educational? Is that awareness? He wouldn’t have to do them very personal things for his 20 year old daughter if he let female carers help look after Deedee or even her sister who supposedly looks after deedee when he goes the gym but he won’t he wants to have all the praise and acknowledgment for doing these things but it’s wrong. A lot to f what he says about Deedee and how she can have a seizure but yet he’s lifting her up and spinning her around, jumping on top of her in the bed just for a post and the likes it’s will get. One minute he’s saying she’s a 20 year old just like any other and dressing her in low cut tops next thing he’s treating her like a 3 year old child I just don’t get it….

He comes across as really odd,I'm guessing if he had a female carer,he wouldn't get as much money,he shouldn't be attending to her personal care and he's exploiting his daughter and encouraging others like when that awful woman Sasha Fontain came to their house