John_deedee

[JellyWobbles]

I don't know why he makes her sit on live with him. She may enjoy it so a short time would be fine. But why not go live when she is settled for the night in bed. It's all for sympathy and gifts he exploits her in my opinion. Just gives me creep vibes. Like is it an account to raise awareness for your daughter's condition and raising a disabled child. Or is it for him to flex his muscles and get attention

its 100% exploitation

Just found this thread today and so glad I did I knew I couldn’t be the only one who had these same views and opinions on this man. I’m sorry to say but I think he’s vile and exploits his daughter to the hilt from the posts and lives he does he totally controls Deedee, he says she is the boss and It’s her who wants to be on TikTok. Deedee is always looking at him for instruction on what to do on the posts he makes. He’s mentioned on his lives In front of deedee about her crying next thing Deedee starts crying and he by the way is shocked by this and tells her to stop! Deedee hangs off every word he says. There’s so many things to pick up from this man what he says and how he is is questionable in my eyes saying they were abused by his ex even to the point of sleeping in the park! Why would he allow that anyway when your daughter is disabled? He really paints a very bad picture about deedees mum and yes it could be 100% true we will never know but from a man that was totally traumatised from this relationship to what he seems to be now, doing calendars, a small acting part, coming on a social media platform half naked most times, putting a wish list on, go fund me page and showing his disabled daughter of for gifts just doesn’t add up to be this overly confident in that short space of time. There is no one who is going to say any different Deedee certainly can’t and he doesn’t have anyone else there with them to say differently to him. It’s like he doesn’t want anyone else there just him and Deedee as he has total control then. There are just so many red flags with this man, can fool some but not everyone.

I completely agree. Deedee really shouldn’t be on TT, she is vulnerable and cannot consent, she is mentally a child. It’s not appropriate, she absolutely does look to her Dad for cues.
I also get really bad feeling about the amount of (physical) gifts she is receiving I say this as, she doesn’t understand fully and it’s clear to see. She becomes extremely upset if a parcel is opened and it’s for John, she has learnt to almost expect every parcel is a gift for her and I just think it’s unfair on her and what it’s teaching/it won’t be forever it’s not always for her etc.

I actually hope DHB gets on his case but I bet he won’t, people are too scared

 

[sassy666666]

Why does he need to ‘shave her private parts’??? Wtf, that’s just very weird and very worrying. I don’t like him, gut instincts are usually right too.

 

[My2pWorth]

I noticed that as well, I thought why film with her there then! He said social services think they have a 'too close of a relationship'. When will he realise its not him being a dad that is a problem, its because he speaks inappropriately about her to thousands of people and she has no privacy or social life.

 

[justheretoread99]

I’m a support worker and I have shown his videos to my team leader who has raised a self guarding concern ,and so have I with his local authority, not in a professional capacity but as a member of the public.

Hi @MrsWalton, did you get a response from the local authority? I understand you wouldn’t be able to share any details, but just wondering if they responded and is being taken further.

 

[JellyWobbles]

I actually can’t believe johns got a go fund me going for a bloody holiday! It’s weeks after Christmas for christs sake! He should save up like the rest of the world have too. What’s he spend all the money he gets from gifts on?! Put that to a holiday maybe? Absolutely ridiculous the more he pops on my fyp the more I can’t stand him. How’s he gunna cope abroad he can’t even take her out the house for a walk

This is my thoughts exactly.
How would he cope? The insurance alone would be astronomical. Then there’s the fact he does fuck all with her, or is this going to be a holiday where he brings his other daughter to mind her while he enjoys the holiday more like? I’m so sick of people quite obviously begging and using their child to get what they (the adult) want. It’s different if it’s equipment or something but….

also she gets so so many gifts and he must know there’s vulnerable people on TT not too far alike to DeeDee that will spend their money on them.. it happens so much!

 

[Guyana1976]

Yes well that would be more practical given Deedees condition. I think there’s a bit more to it why he seems so keen on getting to Australia when clearly there are places he could take his daughter to for a little holiday/break closer without having to put her through the ordeal of travelling to the other side of the world

Flying to Australia for an non disabled person is stressful enough

Yes absolutely and I agree would love DHB to get onto it as he says it how it is and give him his due is pretty spot on this father gives no dignity to his disabled 20 year old daughter from telling everyone on lives mostly over a 1000 people she’s on her period and he shaves her personal parts… really is that something we need to know? Is that educational? Is that awareness? He wouldn’t have to do them very personal things for his 20 year old daughter if he let female carers help look after Deedee or even her sister who supposedly looks after deedee when he goes the gym but he won’t he wants to have all the praise and acknowledgment for doing these things but it’s wrong. A lot to f what he says about Deedee and how she can have a seizure but yet he’s lifting her up and spinning her around, jumping on top of her in the bed just for a post and the likes it’s will get. One minute he’s saying she’s a 20 year old just like any other and dressing her in low cut tops next thing he’s treating her like a 3 year old child I just don’t get it….

He comes across as really odd,I'm guessing if he had a female carer,he wouldn't get as much money,he shouldn't be attending to her personal care and he's exploiting his daughter and encouraging others like when that awful woman Sasha Fontain came to their house

 

[youve got to be joking!]

Flying to Australia for an non disabled person is stressful enough


He comes across as really odd,I'm guessing if he had a female carer,he wouldn't get as much money,he shouldn't be attending to her personal care and he's exploiting his daughter and encouraging others like when that awful woman Sasha Fontain came to their house

He controls his 20 year old daughter so unfortunately what he says goes! Why would he have female carers in when he can be Deedees full time carer however inappropriate that is when it comes to her personal care, he seems to have no boundaries and common sense in respecting his daughters dignity when talking about it to complete strangers on a public media platform. A platform that has now given him the attention he craves and now gets from the many female admirers he has due to the constant posts of himself flexing his muscles and doing the dirty dancing moves I’m sure his yearning to be famous, even though he’s exploited his disabled daughter to achieve that is irrelevant in his eyes as many of his adoring fans think he deserves a pride of Britain award for the amazing hero that he is in looking after his own daughter. My opinion is that all parents/parent should also be nominated then as they all deserve to be acknowledged and awarded for what they do for their disabled children.

 

[moonmam0f2]

This wrong on so many levels , she can't cinxrnt to this , he's half naked again and thirsty women are talking about his swinging leaves

I get really bad vibes from him

 

[greeneyes23]

I actually can’t believe johns got a go fund me going for a bloody holiday! It’s weeks after Christmas for christs sake! He should save up like the rest of the world have too. What’s he spend all the money he gets from gifts on?! Put that to a holiday maybe? Absolutely ridiculous the more he pops on my fyp the more I can’t stand him. How’s he gunna cope abroad he can’t even take her out the house for a walk

 

[renegademasterx]

It’s just after 1 in the morning here and I’ve just came across John and DeeDee on live. Poor DeeDee is having multiple seizures on live and John makes no attempt to end the live/switch off the camera, instead he allows everyone to see her in a vulnerable, undignified manner. I feel so incredibly sad for DeeDee, she deserves better than being plastered over TikTok with no respect for her privacy.

This isn’t the first time I have come across them live in the early hours of the morning either. Sleep is incredibly important for people with epilepsy/who have seizures, a lack of sleep or a poor sleep pattern is a massive trigger for seizures so it pains me to see a very tired looking Dee sat on live night after night, surely superdad John would know this and want to do everything possible to reduce the risk of seizures?!

So long as he’s sat in his vest with his steroid ridden arms and shoulders on show he don’t care about what’s going on in the background. How undignified and disrespectful to Dee. She does not have a mature and developed brain/mind to consent to people gawping at her on tiktok live all day/night. It’s wrong, I don’t know how he keeps getting away with it

 

[Allie101]

Deedee coerced into asking for "snow" snow which costs 400 coins.
Everyone being manipulated and guilted into buying the coins.
Poor deedee.

 

[Platinumbarbie]

He is so controlling there is not a chance he was ever abused by anyone never mind saying his ex made him and deedee sleep in a park that's more something he would do

Yes absolutely and I agree would love DHB to get onto it as he says it how it is and give him his due is pretty spot on this father gives no dignity to his disabled 20 year old daughter from telling everyone on lives mostly over a 1000 people she’s on her period and he shaves her personal parts… really is that something we need to know? Is that educational? Is that awareness? He wouldn’t have to do them very personal things for his 20 year old daughter if he let female carers help look after Deedee or even her sister who supposedly looks after deedee when he goes the gym but he won’t he wants to have all the praise and acknowledgment for doing these things but it’s wrong. A lot to f what he says about Deedee and how she can have a seizure but yet he’s lifting her up and spinning her around, jumping on top of her in the bed just for a post and the likes it’s will get. One minute he’s saying she’s a 20 year old just like any other and dressing her in low cut tops next thing he’s treating her like a 3 year old child I just don’t get it….

Omg I cant believe he has been shaving her private parts that sick

 

[Abakersdizenxo]

Because a lot of the viewers are constantly asking for her when he is on by himself plus he doesn’t get as many views when by himself
Her clothes are inappropriate and she looks ill and Cold a lot of the time !
mentally she is around 2 so imagine someone was doing this to a two year old on live

 

[greeneyes23]

Poor girl has been pointing to her stomach for ages she’s obviously got period pains. I’ve commented loads of times saying get her a hot water bottle and he reads every comment but mine he’s too busy rambling on to his viewers. How anyone can support this I don’t know, it’s giving me massive concern. If you have an opinion you’re automatically a troll. I’ve reported his live for exploitation of a minor. I know she’s not a minor but she has the capacity of one. He can’t be changing her clothes and talking about her periods. He’s literally explaining how he changes her pads!!

 

[My2pWorth]

Dee Dee live now just had a fit come round not with it. Got that weird Disney princess bird. Dee Dee not with it whatsoever and Johns forcing her to stay on live

I saw a bit of that where she was trying to push him off screen and he was so desperate to get back in view with his vest top on Then the woman was singing her a song and he kept talking to dee dee it was so obnoxious of him. He must lose his temper with her because you can see him trying to hold it together when on live but occasionally his mask slips.

 

[Imsexy888]

I can't see how social services aren't seeing huge safeguarding issues. They need to get actively involved & get DeeDee to at least a day centre for sometime with others

 

[grove girl]

John is on the app for what he can get for himself. I can see through him and what he is like a creep. He wants people to pity him as he is Dee Dee carer, and say what a brilliant Dad he is - well he’s not - exploiting her, makes me feel sick the way he treats her making her sit there and begs for gifts as she like certain gifts. Think he needs to go to speech therapy, sounds like a moran when he speaks!

 

[Allie101]

I find this really insulting.
Like I said before my daughters needs are more severe than deedee’s… but regardless of disability or not parenting does not warrant a pride of Britain award ffs. Yes it’s more difficult (physically and emotionally) than your typical parenting but it’s just the way cards are dealt for some of us …you crack on. Why does it warrant an award lol

Exactly!!!! Pride of what sticking his daughter on tiktok for endlessly hours? Telling thousands of people her intimate care details. Eugh!

 

[greeneyes23]

Another strange guy doing a live with deedee and John.

John doesn’t seem to see the issues with any of it. He’s very bizarre and strange. I’ve said before, I feel sorry for dee dee he’s way more interested in being on live than he is with caring for her.

 

[sourlemon]

He's made a small fortune out of this poor kid. I have not watched them in a long time because of his exploitation

It really is exploitation and it’s disgusting. The singer Caitlin? I think and her boyfriend Sean are always doing singing lives to help “promote” go fund me / gifts - recently it’s for a little boy called Troy, it’s absolutely heartbreaking that he’s going through treatments & is so unwell. But I’ve seen a few lives where his mum is just having the camera on his face where he’s half asleep or having a bad day it’s foul.

Wish people would stop putting their sick / disabled children on the app for views and money