ah mum this is defo what i needed to hear you are so wise i know i’ll defo end up back in a thing with him again because his mates are all with my mates and the sex is fuckin banging tbfFull on mum mode here, but you are so young, you don't need to dive back in to a relationship with him if you don't want to be. If you think something casual would work for you both, then go for it...life doesn't have to be all or nothing at any age, but particularly when you are young and having fun. If you're happy getting the dick, hanging out together when you want, but not putting a label on it or being exclusive or whatever, then that's ok if you're both on the same page. And as long as you are being careful.