I came here to see what other people thought about him leaving Indie with no food if she doesn't eat.
I'm not a parent yet so I wasn't sure what reaction others would have.
I get what he's trying to do but I feel like teaching a kid that they don't get snacks if they don't eat their main only applies when they're older.
He's saying she likes the food but she doesn't eat it because she's not hungry and shows she does like the food by eating it all when offered it later but is she just eating because she's starving and knows she won't get anything else if she doesn't?
I feel like she's going to have a strange relationship with food as she grows up if she thinks she HAS to eat everything they give her otherwise she'll be left to go hungry.
When my nephew was at that stage of weaning they would give him a selection plate and let him pick at what he wanted. There would be cheese, finger veg, bread sticks and hummus and some sort of protein. Some days he would decide he didn't want cheese but would eat everything else, the next day he wouldn't touch the veg but he'd always eat something.
ETA: I just saw this after posting and couldn't believe it!
So she could have 1 mouthful at lunch and refuse it and 1 at dinner and refuse it and then she just gets milk before bed until breakfast!?
Of course she "smashes a massive breakfast"