I felt the same after seeing that, my daughter is 3 and a half and isn’t even remotely interested/able to hold a pen... she holds it as a fist and then gets annoyed when she can’t do a circle and throws the pen on the floor
But Joe is so painfully insecure and so desperate for validation online, it’s so cringe-worthy to watch! He was trying so hard to get her to say the letter Y and it was obvious she didn’t know but he just wanted to force the moment... even though it’s completely normal for a child that age to have no clue what the letters of the alphabet are.