The thing I wonder is, where are her family in all this?
Im currently going through a separation and as soon as I am able I'm going to file for divorce. However at the beginning of it all as it came out of the blue I really didn't want any of it to be happening. He randomly just left, and I didn't want him to go. So I understand how she feels.
BUT, as my STBXH actions have escalated and gotten worse, that has helped me see this is the right path, as has my family, friends and even lawyer's support.
Where is her support network, as her parents are lovely. If I was them I would be saying, I know its hard but look at what he has done and said, deleting the blog out of spite and messing up her earning capabilities amongst other things?
He isn't the man you thought he was, and I understand how hard that is to find out that this is the case, it's a whole mess of emotions. I just hope she can see she and the boys deserve better. She deserves to be happy and the boys deserve a happy mum.