In Australia it’s usually 2 nights for a Caesar or 1 for a straight forward vaginal birth but I think if you go private you can stay longer, and I imagine she went private.
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2 nights for CS? It's major abdominal surgery. Five days/nights in Ireland.
2 to 3 nights for straightforward vb. Though could go home earlier on request if all well.
2 nights max in N Ireland. Sometimes same day for vb.
Why will the child have to correct pronunciation, losds of Irish in Oz
So he’s reposted this photo of himself with the baby
But not this one with his girlfriend and the baby 🫣
But not this one with his girlfriend and the baby 🫣
My daughter-in-law had a c section and they wanted her out the next day!!
So does the baby hes probably realising he’s drawn the short straw having that twit as a father!!Is it just me or does he look very shell shocked in all the pictures?
Even if you'd never clapped eyes on him before, you'd know he was a complete tosser just from seeing those pics.
1-2 nights in the UK for C-Section. Partner goes home overnight at my local hospital which is rough after major surgery. Can be home same day for uncomplicated vaginal birth.
I can't believe women are being turfed out of hospital 1 to 2 days after a c-section now.
Bit off-topic but interesting article on it here (re. discharge in Australia):
www.theguardian.com
Bit off-topic but interesting article on it here (re. discharge in Australia):
How early is too early to be discharged from hospital after giving birth? | Ranjana Srivastava
A longer post-birth stay in the wards could help many mothers, even if research remains inconclusive
www.theguardian.com
I'm not sure he'd be able to as he's not tagged in the picture. But she probably knows the rules about how they can be seen on social media.
I had a c section in NI on a Friday night and was sent home Sunday morning. Had my staples removed a week later on my sofa. Also had a midwife give off to me for asking for help to put the sides of the bed up the first night (so I could use them to pull myself up )
The way women are treated in the uk is shocking. Any other surgery you’d be in hospital much longer.
The way women are treated in the uk is shocking. Any other surgery you’d be in hospital much longer.
She's not carrying anything either which is also why I wondered about a c-section.
Tin hat on, is this a JS thread or mumsnet?
Asking for a friend….
Asking for a friend….
simmer down. It’s on topic they’ve just had a baby? Naturally people are wondering about the birth/ discussing birth.
I did wonder this…thee are curtains around the bed though, looks decidedly public to me. If it was private wouldn’t they have a private room?
Plus the child will spend his life correcting everyone's mispronunciation of his name.
I only know it pronounced as he said “kee-an”. How would it be mispronounced?
His post shows how many issues he hasn’t addressed with his adoption. It has been obvious a few times in the past, and it’s sad he has moved so far away from his adoptive parents now. I think it’s part of the misogyny issue really, a psychiatrist would have a field day with him.
I've heard it mangled in a number of ways. "See-an" (same way the C in Cillian Murphy's name has been pronounced by some Americans, despite him being a famous actor whose name is in the public domain); Cye-ann is another one (cye to rhyme with rye).
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The jokes are funnier on Mumsnet.
I completely agree.
I haven't ever met an adopted person that hasn't been affected, messed up or struugled to get their head around being adopted in one way or another. But they've talked it out, gotten therapy, worked through it etc. Adoptive parents have all this explained to them and know it's a natural part of an adoptee's thought patterns, to work through in a healthy way.
However, James has always been in complete denial it has affected him in any shape or form, despite it being glaringly obvious to everyone else that it has. To be honest, if it HADN'T have affected his life then that would throw up more warning signals about his personality than anything else!
If he got some therapy, acknowledged his thoughts and feelings are common in adoptees, spoke to others, just ANYTHING in his formative years, then it would have helped wonders.
Instead, we have a manchild that has Andrew Tate views on women, clearly stemming from his view that women can't be trusted with his love, that they don't hang around long-term and no matter how much an adoptive family do for you, blood is more important than any of that.
He treats women like objects, throwing them away before they can hurt him and sadly will either produce a child that grows up to have views just like James, or will despise his father's views and treatment of women and therefore have a cold and distant relationship with him.
I’ve been up since 5am with my 1 year old, watching Encanto for the 50,000th time, whilst she uses me as a climbing frame and repeatedly hits my head with a rubber radish teething toy. Made me think, I really can’t imagine either of them doing that with their baby
I wonder what his views are on breastfeeding and if he will dare to share them at some point
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