James and Carys #11 baby’s not perfect they won’t admit, Carys is ashamed of her tits.

[aldiwaitrose]

Surely it would do Amber good to be out and about in the fresh air ffs! Sit her in her pushchair and let her enjoy the world!!
Plus how the duck is she wearing no bra while breast feeding? One whine from Amber and she would be flooded

 

[heartonosey]

Had to comment as I’m a professional in childcare I’m saddened that Carys in particular seems to panic if the baby is awake whilst out in public. They seem to be planning their lives around her being asleep which is not only unrealistic but it’s no good for the baby. She needs to be socialised in out of house situations. If baby wakes whilst out then so be it.if
She screams in public so be it. It seems very apparent to me that Carys is really struggling to deal with baby awake or when she cries and feels out of her depth. Which is normal for a new mum but parenthood throws varies challenges and obstacles at you that you have to get over. In my opinion baby is being sent for nap times WAY too often which means that when she’s awake she’ll be groggy. I always teach “remember your in charge of baby and baby’s not in charge of you” they could do with using this advice. Instead of pandering around so that baby is silent and asleep whilst out let the baby see the world let the baby take in outside of house or they’ll have real issue in future with a child that is socially awkward

 

[Tttanya]

Honestly watching her videos feels like watching someone who’s trying desperately to convince themselves they like their current life. She has seemingly has no “real life” problems, moaning about her baby being awake is embarrassing. Babies do that funnily enough Carys, imagine what she’s going to be like when ambers aged 3, running around screaming! Can’t force your kid to sleep then She just seems like she isn’t bonding with Amber at all

 

[Hbirdette]

I actually can’t believe she’s just put that on her stories? Don’t get me wrong, in the first week or so of being home I was a bit worried incase our baby cried when we were out - but I’m sorry you just have to get on with tit. My baby screamed b&m down earlier, I literally picked him up out the carry cot, cuddled him for 5 mins whilst looking at stuff and then he was fine. It wasn’t embarrassing it’s just what babies do! Amber wants to look around because everything is new to her!!! Carys can’t just stay confined to the house when amber is awake.

 

[Misspurpleberry]

If she put on some comfy clothes in the right size rather than skin tight cycling shorts and sports bra then she'd probably forget about her body and start enjoying being a mum

 

[samalambbxtch]

It’s like they feel the need to constantly be entertaining amber while she’s awake. By all means play with your baby but you don’t have to be interact with them every second of the day. How does she think single parents or mums with partners at full time work get anything done?! I would sit my baby in the kitchen if im cooking or washing the pots, or sit her in her cot with some toys whilst I sorted some washing or made the beds, like it’s not that difficult, she is making such hard work of it when it really doesn’t need to be. Also find it sooo strange how they like amber to be asleep every time they leave the house. What’s wrong with letting your baby look around at new and interesting surroundings ? I would purposely take my babies out if they were being a little fussy a change of scenery really helps. I get that carys is an anxious person so wanted to learn lots before amber was born but she’s following every class to the letter.How ever did people cope before there was on online class for everything Oh yeah they listened to their mother’s instinct and just got to know their own baby. I’ve never known parents be so obsessed with a set schedule especially considering they don’t have older children or actual jobs to work round. Hopefully they will relax a bit if they have more children and will look back on this time and regret being so bloody regimented and not just enjoying their first born as a baby. Sad they will never get this time back.

 

[mklanch]

its almost like she thought being pregnant was the hard part! wake up carys!

 

[samalambbxtch]

Honestly watching her videos feels like watching someone who’s trying desperately to convince themselves they like their current life. She has seemingly has no “real life” problems, moaning about her baby being awake is embarrassing. Babies do that funnily enough Carys, imagine what she’s going to be like when ambers aged 3, running around screaming! Can’t force your kid to sleep then She just seems like she isn’t bonding with Amber at all

Exactly this! My little girl is almost one and she’s into everything and everywhere! Sometimes she naps sometimes she doesn’t Newborn is the easy bit when you can put them somewhere and they stay there. If carys isn’t coping now she will legit have a breakdown when Amber’s on the move

 

[puddulduck]

Her latest stories infuriated so much I sent her a DM message that i’m sure she’ll never see. But it scares me her attitude in all of this.
I work in education and I have seen some horrendous lifestyles that children are being brought up in. Gosh Cary’s for once in your life be grateful for your life, love your little girl and let her see the world because it’a beautiful out there.
I had my vaccine today and my 2 month old screamed the house down. Is it going to stop
me from going out of the house and enjoy my life. Nope.
Gosh if they have anymore kids she is going to have the shock of her life.

 

[Pinda]

Can’t Amber go to daycare? Doesn’t have to be 5 days a week but maybe 3..? When she ´s old enough of course. At least she’d see other people and babies. And carys could start losing weight. She clearly isn’t happy with her weight.

Can’t Amber go to daycare? Doesn’t have to be 5 days a week but maybe 3..? When she ´s old enough of course. At least she’d see other people and babies. And carys could start losing weight. She clearly isn’t happy with her weight.

 

[Livelaughlove123456]

It seems they didn’t realise having a baby would completely change their lives.

Carys wants to live the life she had before Amber but was apparently so desperate for a baby. It doesn’t make sense to me.

 

[Hellofromtheotherside]

She needs to go to some baby groups, meet some mum friends with similar age babies and wake up to the real world!

 

[mklanch]

It seems they didn’t realise having a baby would completely change their lives.

Carys wants to live the life she had before Amber but was apparently so desperate for a baby. It doesn’t make sense to me.

so many people questioned her when she said her and james are going to try for a baby. people said enjoy your house for a bit. i remember them saying we are ready for this and thought about it alot and we are not just jumping into it. we know its not for everything but its what we want blah blah blah.
(they spoke about this in numerous mukbangs)

i think it was just another thing to tick of the list for them

 

[Yukon909]

what’s she going to be like when she has tons of kids that she apparently wanted

 

[mcgee]

It seems they didn’t realise having a baby would completely change their lives.

Carys wants to live the life she had before Amber but was apparently so desperate for a baby. It doesn’t make sense to me.

Talking on her insta stories about “mourning” the things she was able to do so easily pre Amber like arts and crafts No one told you to have a baby when you did Carys, if you weren’t ready to let go of the easiness of your life, you shouldn’t have chose to have a baby when you did.

I know she’s trying to be relatable on her Instagram but when she’s going on about not being able to go on a dog walk or the blooming spin bike so easily because of her baby I can’t be bothered listening. It was solely down to you and James to make your lives the way it is now.

 

[Missclassy19]

NGl I’ve seen plenty of mothers workout w their child in their presence n be able to balance. She’s a newborn yes they’re difficult not saying that but put a workout on the gv have Amber idk what it’s called but in one of those baby cradle things in front of you so you can see her incase n workout next to her... am I being dumb or that not how she can do it. Orrrrrr acc use your husband n let him watch her for an hour or so ... or grandparents can come over n look after her while you idk go downstairs or in the garden. She’s acting like Amber will burst into flames without her

Also surely there’s other ways to workout w a child like idk dancing. Going on a long walk w Amber. Stretching in the garden. Like she needs to find what works for her n not just completely expect alone time.

 

[elsa98]

Those stories are absolutely terrifying. I can’t believe she only brings Amber out while she’s sleeping. It’s so sad I think carys needs to take maternity leave and just get some professional help. With a counsellor and with maybe a nanny? I know this isn’t a rave page and believe me I’m not a fan, she drives me bonkers but the way she just spoke and it was clearly such a normal thing in her eyes… just scary.

 

[Livelaughlove123456]

Talking on her insta stories about “mourning” the things she was able to do so easily pre Amber like arts and crafts No one told you to have a baby when you did Carys, if you weren’t ready to let go of the easiness of your life, you shouldn’t have chose to have a baby when you did.

I know she’s trying to be relatable on her Instagram but when she’s going on about not being able to go on a dog walk or the blooming spin bike so easily because of her baby I can’t be bothered listening. It was solely down to you and James to make your lives the way it is now.

honestly I find her using the word mourning so ridiculous.
She’s mourning her relationship with James and mourning the time she had before. I’ve never in my life heard a mother use that phrasing.

she sounded more excited about painting the shed and sorting the eucalyptus tree than anything to do with Amber in recent vlog

 

[mklanch]

honestly I find her using the word mourning so ridiculous.
She’s mourning her relationship with James and mourning the time she had before. I’ve never in my life heard a mother use that phrasing.

she sounded more excited about painting the shed and sorting the eucalyptus tree than anything to do with Amber in recent vlog

shes probably seen someone else talk about it and shes jumping on that like everything else she jumps on.
she should feel sorry for the mums in small homes without a pelaton to work out on or a large garden to enjoy!!! or the women whose husband's have to work!!

 

[Hellofromtheotherside]

NGl I’ve seen plenty of mothers workout w their child in their presence n be able to balance. She’s a newborn yes they’re difficult not saying that but put a workout on the gv have Amber idk what it’s called but in one of those baby cradle things in front of you so you can see her incase n workout next to her... am I being dumb or that not how she can do it. Orrrrrr acc use your husband n let him watch her for an hour or so ... or grandparents can come over n look after her while you idk go downstairs or in the garden. She’s acting like Amber will burst into flames without her

Also surely there’s other ways to workout w a child like idk dancing. Going on a long walk w Amber. Stretching in the garden. Like she needs to find what works for her n not just completely expect alone time.

Yeh there's loads of buggy fitness classes outside she could have a look into, would do her so much good to get out and about with her