first time tattle poster! loving this thread, if a little too harsh at times...
Great to see im not the only one cringing at her insta stories. She is very immature and like a teenage girl (we are the same age and I wouldnt dream of talking like her, and I'm not married with kids). Worrying that her oldest daughter seems similar to her in that she seems quite bratty (also the youngest one, can she talk yet?)
I do think that Dan probably influenced her decision to leave Eastenders ('spend time with the kids and we can be a family!' etc) and thus taking away her independence and career. Yes her acting is mediocre, but she can sing and she could have stayed in Stenders easily or done some bland theatre stuff rather than the influencer route (also that ITS range is awful!!)
I also agree that it seems weird she always has weight issues (I am not going to judge her weight, be your own size and own it). I definitely think Dan plays a part in that. Me and my partner eat very similar living together so it seems strange that he is Mr Healthy/Nutrition/Gym but she doesn't follow that lifestyle. Definitely another tactic on his part to keep her under the thumb.
This is what is sad, she thinks she is in control when it is actually all him. I do feel bad for her cos she clearly just wants to be loved.