I can well believe a lot of stuff in the house wasn't paid for by her - she did set up home with someone else, so it could be the partner paid for a lot of stuff. And might want some of it as part of the break up.
I also have sympathy with carrying heavy shopping - I have fibromyalgia and there have been weeks when the thought of shopping was enough to have a meltdown. Luckily I have a lot of friends / colleagues who helped physically, and mentally.
What I'm struggling with (like a lot of you by the looks of it) is the constant piss on Twitter, and the fact everything happens to her at once. And is worse than anything anyone else has been through. So you broadcast that you only £20 to spend, but then get stroppy when asked about. She's shared so much it's no wonder people think it is ok to ask. Although its now 17 hours since the last tweet - u k hun?