I did a year of no shopping this year and it taught me a lot about how much time I previously wasted on receiving, trying stuff on, packing back up and returning… as you say all time that could be better used elsewhere. It also helped me declutter my closet which has been amazing for my mental health.Less stuff means less to tidy, tidier house makes me happy. With the amount of “stuff” she has surrounding her she has no room to clear her mind and focus. It must feel insurmountable. I dont feel sorry for her , she’s a horrible dishonest person.