I do tooJust to say Nicola Miller has 10k followers now so we don't have to call her Trifle Defender anymore!
Although I quite like Trifle Defender as a name...
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I do tooJust to say Nicola Miller has 10k followers now so we don't have to call her Trifle Defender anymore!
Although I quite like Trifle Defender as a name...
As did Bee Wilsonās The Secret of Cooking* for me, earlier this week. Itās EXHAUSTING.immediately came here to post this! amazing how in one single sentence this article lost all credibility for me
Oh thank god we can say her name. I donāt see why we couldnāt have before 10k once she started being upfront about her tweets being @ Jack - as she is a public figure (which I thought was the other OK, 10k and/or a public figure with open account which journalist tweeting from journalism account deffo counts as). Not that I donāt also like trifle defender as her general name in the threads, it will just save pages of the āFirst name same as former Scottish leader Sturgeon, second Windyā¦ā now we can name her.Just to say Nicola Miller has 10k followers now so we don't have to call her Trifle Defender anymore!
Although I quite like Trifle Defender as a name...
BIB - yep. I have a dearly departed friend who was known for doing it from the tables outside our local pub (he'd been barred for years) - whilst he was a gorgeous person and I miss him like mad since he passed, he was an absolutely chronic alcoholic and this was usually done when he was on his arse skint. Which was a lot of the time because he lived in genuine poverty, the likes of which Jackanory could never understand. It is not normal bleeping behaviour, even for most alcoholics, it's just what she reckons alkies do so she pretends to have done it to add some extra brush strokes to the picture she's trying to paint.Her minesweeping drinks story is like her getting a half eaten big mac out the bin story. She read it somewhere and thought it'd land well with a few cloud heads who'd tear up at the desperation and get their debit cards out their Radley bags.
Drinking other peoples dregs is not insouciant, naughty, devil may care behaviour, it's rock bottom, awful alcoholic behaviour which she has never been and certainly wouldn't have been in her late teens. She has no concept of keeping stories plausible with reasonable details. She over eggs the cake that much they'd all be omelettes.
I reckon we can add English language and RE to that almost certainly too and then I would imagine general studies as well - any private or normal school looking to boost results goes for that as itās basically another (easier) English exam for any student with even a modicum of common sense/world knowledge.I've not found a full list but I did find that she took some early (17 in year 10). So this year she "only" took 17 other subjects. The ones I've seen mentioned include astronomy, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Maths, Economics, Sociology, Psychology, English Literature, Latin, German, French, Classic Civilization, History, Film Studies and Drama. There'll almost certainly be a Further Maths qualification in there, and probably more than one music GCSE (she got the ABRSM Music Theory & practical at grade 8 as well), and probably Urdu and/or Punjabi as she was born in Lahore.
I love that an endorsement of Jacks books is quickly becoming a red flag indicating this person isn't actually familiar with her poorly put together nutritionally bereft slops and has done no research of her cookery, therefore what else could he be mistaken or poorly informed about? A cursory glance at her MO reveals the removal of everything fresh or slightly spenny for a substitute that's inferior on taste, satiety and calories and a WWII attitude to what-the-skint-eat heavy on tinned beans and pulses but barely a baldy noodle or piece of pasta in sight.So Mr UPF recommends the books of Jack "101 ways with a bollock sausage" Monroe? Right you are mate.
I'd get nutrition advice from her in the same way I'd get chic understated outfit advice from Liberace.
Have they released the data showing what the basket items are yet?Jack, JACK! "Which?" are VBI-ing without you again! JACK??
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No wonder I couldn't find any posts from "Alec Pops".Not that I donāt also like trifle defender as her general name in the threads, it will just save pages of the āFirst name same as former Scottish leader Sturgeon, second Windyā¦ā now we can name her.
I have heard of Malala, although admittedly not in great depth, and agree that she does some really meaningful activism (unlike some people we know) but I do hope some of that includes the role of chance, the ability to take up opportunities and access to capable adult guidance in making good things happen, and leverages that into positive and realistic messages about defining success on your own terms.All good points @Hollaaa.
As for Malala, you're right about that particular message, if you take it at face value. However, Malala's work, through her foundation, is absolutely about providing resources, supportive infrastructure and better conditions for educating girls in all sorts of deprived circumstances. So, I don't think it's fair to accuse her of toxic positivity. She uses her personal platform to be an ambassador, a role model, while also working bloody hard to raise funds and advocate for girls all over the world. She's not some dipshit influencer spouting Oprah-isms on social media.
Even her lemon juice is a UPF.Endless stuffing. Cheap tinned baked beans. Bollock sausages. Cheap white bread. Instant mash. Angel Delight. Nope, no UPF to see here sir, no siree
Me too. To the point when I search for her I often type in trifle defender into the search bar and am confused when there are no results.I do too![]()
I thought waitrose would be wayyyy more expensive. Anyway Lidl and Aldi are fab but for me, they're quite far from my home so I'd way rather just pay a bit extra and be localJack, JACK! "Which?" are VBI-ing without you again! JACK??
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Thing is though, all people with adhd are different and have different personalities. Adhd doesnāt present the exact same way in every person. Not every person will get dopamine from the exact same things. Things that stimulate me, your husband may find intensely boring or irritating. Itās like expecting every person with adhdThis is what makes me think the ADHD is a lie. My Harold has ADHD. He's done loads of research online about what it does and means and how brains function. ADHD brains don't get the normal levels of stimulation and tend to need more, more novelty, more risk, more extremes to achieve the same dopamine/seratonin effect. That's partly why ADHDers are so prone to depression. People like jack who are perfectly happy living very small lives are not the same. Their brains are satisfied with much less stimulation. That's not a bad thing at all! It just explains why some people are content doing a 9-5, going to the same pub every Friday, eating the same roast on a Sunday, holidaying at the same spot every year and other people couldn't function with that level of sameness. Jack is one of the first type. She gets a dopamine high from buying crockery! She doesn't have ADHD.