I agree and as much as we all judge Jack for moving in straight away with her son Allegra had a young kid too so was as much in the wrong there. I hate it when people don’t think about the impact that jumping into a new relationship would have on their kid.The Allegra and Jack relationship always had a really weird vibe. Like Jack was a bright toddler, and Allegra was an indulgent parent.
Assuming he is telling the truth.
I’m getting Glen from Nighty Night vibes.
“if it’s 60p a word my sweet then certainly I shall pay you £1234.34”
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"I am a very attractive woman, Ex-OH. I have men shouting at me in the street..."
Surely jack and bright is an oxymoron?The Allegra and Jack relationship always had a really weird vibe. Like Jack was a bright toddler, and Allegra was an indulgent parent.
"are either of your two houses nearby, Glen?"Assuming he is telling the truth.
I’m getting Glen from Nighty Night vibes.
“if it’s 60p a word my sweet then certainly I shall pay you £1234.34”
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The yellow sticker though
In my younger years I had alot of friends who were boys and the seen me as one of the lads. I was there through many of the messy fuckups! It's taught me alot about how men think. ( They don't) if something works for them, great they will carry on if it doesn't they will move on etc.I agree.
I know I bang on about this on other threads, so sorry to anyone who’s seen this screed elsewhere, but I really think true enlightenment and maturity* lies in being able to accept that usually the person isn’t a narc. Isn’t toxic. It isn’t “their loss”. Sometimes it IS you, not them (at least in their eyes). People change their minds and break promises. And pretending otherwise is bullshit toxic positivity.
*Let the record show I’m 37, and it has taken me all my adulthood, and therapy, and time to reflect on a breakup at the start of lockdown to finally “get” this. And I still struggle with it. But I do find peace in being able to accept it and not villainise the other person endlessly.
PS my phone says villainise isn’t a word, I don’t accept that! My phone is toxic
Very possible. When trying to break contact with a narc, one of the only things guaranteed to make it easier and for them to back off - is when they find a new supply. If they are occupied with someone new, it's a blessing, they'll get so wrapped up in the attention from the new source, you get left in peace. She might think she's sticking it to Harold, but the dear chap is probably relieved that she is BUSY.I think she's genuinely been sucked into all the messages on Tinder and forgotten about Twitter. The narc high, validation high, from loads of men messaging must very very intoxicating for her.
Tbh I hope she stays there. Its always so lovely here with our wit and tales without her bile fermenting on the thread!Very possible. When trying to break contact with a narc, one of the only things guaranteed to make it easier and for them to back off - is when they find a new supply. If they are occupied with someone new, it's a blessing, they'll get so wrapped up in the attention from the new source, you get left in peace. She might think she's sticking it to Harold, but the dear chap is probably relieved that she is BUSY.
Well, quite! And welcome.If I was genuinely destitute the first thing I’d do is swallow my stupid pride and move into my parents huge house for a few months until I got on my feet
Bingo. I really see the AAI was thinking if OH is in recovery and Jack isn’t really following it (not completely alcohol free beer) that would be a very valid reason for ending it. One which she isn’t likely to share.
But…but how can that be?! Jack is so famous she has to weed out ‘starfuckers’ from dating apps! <insert ‘Sure, Jan’ gif here>I still find it hilarious that AI doesn't recognise her at all
I could come up with a good YA m/m story about these guys
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It's that Stockholm syndrome thing. See also mothers of toddlers who start to fancy eg Mr Bloom or other Cbeebies presenters.Was he objectively fit or just fit because he was in his 20s as opposed to 50s, and a man? This is a girls school phenomena
At least I finally know what it means to physically feel the full body criiiinge. Nothing can surprise me now.I was having a very nice time on my walk in the sunshine earlier then a memory of starfuckers, gym rat and English syllabus came unbidden and I sustained a serious crinjury in public. I don't think I could've coped if she'd had any more Tinder adventures today.
I was having a very nice time on my walk in the sunshine earlier then a memory of starfuckers, gym rat and English syllabus came unbidden and I sustained a serious crinjury in public.
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