Jack Monroe #320 Guns N' Roses

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She tit herself at the food bank coz she saw Mammy’s mate running it. That’s why she told them “before they found out” and they turned up the next day with bags of shopping for her and SB.
Also there’s the story she tagged along to the foodbank with a friend who was going, the story that it was attached to the surest art centre where staff noticed her eating the free biscuits and were worried, and the wet/sweet tea/little match girl version
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Yes the whole 'told them before they were told' is suspect too imo. I'm sure people running food banks don't run around blabbing who uses it. A complete betrayal of trust if so. I bet Jack was desparate to tell them. She thrives on pity.
I think she would've loved it if a concerned third party intervened.
 
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IIRC she also says in the SEB podcast that the actual time she was struggling and had no food was about 18 months. The amount of time she hid the fact that she was struggling from her parents. During this time I am sure it's been noted that SB was spending several nights a week at his dads and hopefully also visiting his grandparents and being fed. It is not that long ago that Jack got into a twitter spat with someone who questioned whether she was (literally, as she likes to put it) starving during this time.
Oh yes. I wonder how many people who are literally starving claim it’s pride and not wanting to ask their perfectly comfortable parents that caused it? Russian peasants who were ‘literally starving’ ate the corpses of family members to survive. Obviously just not proud enough eh Jack?
 
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Yes it makes no sense. Once the parents found out it is inconceivable they stood back and allowed a small boy to be cold and hungry. Plus once Jack had 'reluctantly' 🙄 told them why would she feel the shame she said she did after that? Thus stopping her asking for help again?
And why didn't they mind him while Jack trudged around in the rain looking for jobs?
Her story has so many holes but it seems to boil down to a) Jack is telling the truth and her family, and SB's family let an obviously suffering mother and child live in misery for a year and a half or b) she is lying about lots of it, and her parents are complicit in the deception. For whatever reasons.
If Jack didn’t drag a crying wet toddler around the shops with her, how would they have known she was a single mum? There would be a real risk of Jack being offered a job.
 
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She claims that a sure start worker basically begged her to fill out the food bank referral form because she was taking left over lunch (it was a lunch club for young single mothers) home with her in Tupperware and she was looking too thin.

The thing that actually stood out to me from the Sure Start story was her saying that the users had to put up with “enforced socialisation” with one another to get the free lunch. She hasn’t considered that for the rest maybe they enjoyed spending time with other young women in the same position, maybe they were lonely or found support in one another.
 
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If Jack didn’t drag a crying wet toddler around the shops with her, how would they have known she was a single mum? There would be a real risk of Jack being offered a job.
The thing is, half the time it wasn't raining, she just felt a wet toddler was the sort of thing a poor might cart about with them.
 
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She survived on grits and the weevils provided the protein
Sometimes she went down the bayou for some crawfish that she softly, gently rinsed in the sweltering heat whilst sobbing into her slip dress made from flour sacks.
 
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She claims that a sure start worker basically begged her to fill out the food bank referral form because she was taking left over lunch (it was a lunch club for young single mothers) home with her in Tupperware and she was looking too thin.

The thing that actually stood out to me from the Sure Start story was her saying that the users had to put up with “enforced socialisation” with one another to get the free lunch. She hasn’t considered that for the rest maybe they enjoyed spending time with other young women in the same position, maybe they were lonely or found support in one another.
They’d be beneath a naice middle class gel like her.
 
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Based on her comments on the podcast, the situation seems to be:

-Spends "a year" in grinding poverty, but doesn't need to use a foodbank in all that time and her parents somehow remain unaware.
-Eventually goes to the foodbank for the first time after being encouraged by a SureStart worker.
-On that very first visit, happens to see someone who knows her parents.
-Goes home and tells them about her circumstances straight away so they don't find out from someone else.
-They immediately come round with bags of food, then...just don't bother again?
-Jack continues to use the foodbank for [insert time period between 6 months and a year].

"A slight wrinkle" doesn't quite cover it.
 
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Soz guys but Georgia jack will never not be funny - I’m crying here. Jenny you should do stand up - you’re killing me 🤣🤣🤣

Eta - bugger13 coming up the rear too
 
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Oh yes. I wonder how many people who are literally starving claim it’s pride and not wanting to ask their perfectly comfortable parents that caused it? Russian peasants who were ‘literally starving’ ate the corpses of family members to survive. Obviously just not proud enough eh Jack?
If it was pride, as she claims, that stopped her asking her supportive and reasonably affluent parents for help, then she has got a nerve making a fairly lucrative career out of it. She had choices to get her and her child out of the poverty hole which she chose not to take.
A lot of people have no lifelines or Plan B.
 
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Yes the whole 'told them before they were told' is suspect too imo. I'm sure people running food banks don't run around blabbing who uses it. A complete betrayal of trust if so. I bet Jack was desparate to tell them. She thrives on pity.
I think she would've loved it if a concerned third party intervened.
Is another aspect of this that she is just incredibly tight fisted and saw it as a way of getting free food? She seems to deeply begrudge spending money on food, even her earliest blogs are boasting about how little she can spend per week on food. She thinks she's entitled to free food and free patreon cash (that doesn't even cover her rent and bills lol).
 
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“Daddy it’s just not fair, I want to tweet about being poor and down on my luck n all. Let me tell them you’re a communist Daddy”
 
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She sold her piano and bought a banjo- invited all the other swamp dwellers round for moonshine and pea can pie
 
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She claims that a sure start worker basically begged her to fill out the food bank referral form because she was taking left over lunch (it was a lunch club for young single mothers) home with her in Tupperware and she was looking too thin.

The thing that actually stood out to me from the Sure Start story was her saying that the users had to put up with “enforced socialisation” with one another to get the free lunch. She hasn’t considered that for the rest maybe they enjoyed spending time with other young women in the same position, maybe they were lonely or found support in one another.
I used to run such a group around the same time (nowhere near Southend), sort of. And although ‘young mums’ were up to 25, really this was aimed at 16-19 year olds…. Anyone older than about 21 we would be encouraging to go to ‘normal’ mums and babies groups, unless there was a SEN statement or reason to believe they were particularly vulnerable eg care leaver, referred by social care.
 
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