Jack Monroe #119 She says lots of things, many of which are false

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This just confirms (again) what we’ve known all along, she’s a lurker who probably has Tattle open on one phone and Twitter on the other.

I’m quite interested in the psychology of this though. If I was a jackanory and I read how many people had caught me out in so many lies, my stomach would drop and I’d feel “caught”. I would love to know if she would react the same but don’t see how she can. Does this fuel her behaviour - is it part of the game or does she feel like we’re just out to get her because she sees nothing wrong in what she’s doing? I find it quite fascinating but also very worrying.
Same, babe! Exactly the same, I think anyone who’s gone through any type of recovery is the same. Your thought paths are just re programmed to be esteemable, boundaried, honest, and her behaviour is at direct odds with any form of wellness (imo).

I’m not saying I’m a saint cos I’ve definitely accidentally ran a red light recently & am waiting for the fine to come through as we speak, but your tummy drop feeling is exactly what healthy people feel when they’re doing bad things, even if they’re mistakes. Her ability to cognitively detach from any form of guilt over the Patreon / duping people into believing she’s low income / stealing marginalised identities for work is actually quite chilling when you deep it. I don’t want to diagnose beyond that as we get enough factual #content but it doesn’t surprise me someone who can detach in such a way can also actively keep up here, if you had healthy self esteem you’d not read it.
 
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So if Monroe is in bed and fully under the weather, where is BB? Is the boy looking after both of them? - if so, how weird would BB have to be to impose on a young lad/family in this way... that seems unlikely. If, as is more likely, BB is at her own place and not with Monroe then how did Monroe catch corona?
 
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I think last night points to one thing. Bb is not isolating in the crappy bungalow. Which means she’s in her London gaff. Which certainly suggests Jack has been telling a few more untruths to followers. I would bet BB had symptoms at the weekend when they were together and naughtily went back to her own place on Sunday evening before doing the test Monday and finding out she’s positive. Now jack suddenly has it too but no one is there to feed her or look after her as she did with BB at the weekend. All just conjecture at this point M’lud, but I’d like to submit 10 hours of lists about food as evidence.
 
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Members of my family had it and it sounded horrid. All they could do was lie in bed and sleep the clock round. One of them still says she is tired all the time.( But not in the normal sense.)
 
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I had flu a few years ago. My temp went over 40. I thought I was dying. I was also freezing. Had 3 layers on, thick duvet on and I was still shivering. I drank because I knew I had to. I couldn’t eat, just didn’t fancy anything. I managed to send one text to my mum which was to say I was ok but needed rest. That was it for 5 days. I have never been so ill. Every bit of my body hurt.

So whilst I want to give her the benefit of the doubt that she genuinely does have covid (and obviously I wish her and L back to health very soon), I’m thinking there may be some embellishment of her symptoms and that actually makes me angry. People are dying of this FFS, it’s not a game.
Yep, I had flu and for a good few days don’t even remember having the energy to pee more than once a day. I couldn’t even watch tv let alone tweet all hours. I was just passed out.
 
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Yep, I had flu and for a good few days don’t even remember having the energy to pee more than once a day. I couldn’t even watch tv let alone tweet all hours. I was just passed out.
I remember saying to my husband that I thought I needed to be in hospital on a drip. I remember all I wanted to eat when I felt well enough was cold grapes and apples. I remember that I wasn’t bleeping well enough to think about other food let alone tweet about it non stop for hours on end.
 
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the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated - by me, for likes
 
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Chinese wholesaler style shops do pretty good prawns!
True, I get them from a place online called Wai Yee Hong which is in Bristol I think, I’ve used them loads over lockdown and they’re great, they even come in little prawny shapes and you can use them in paella etc. too.
 
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Personal opinion only, but it must surely be narcissism. They are plenty of people of all age groups who agree with you about posting inane bullshit online for the dopamine hit. One wonders also what the link is between people who are bleeping useless at socialising in the real world, you know the type, self involved and salty if not receiving adequate attention - what is the link between these mateless narcissists and online narcissists.... one assumes they’re one and the same, that they find more success and oxygen for their narcissism online where they can lie and control their own narrative 100%. Gone are the pesky days where people would hold you to account for bad actions which perhaps meant the stunting of any social ladder climbing - now it just requires deletion, blocking if need be and the telling of a different story. Sorted..
I think these days with the internet and social media the way it is, we notice more narcissists than we ever would have been able to before. There's more of these types about than we think. And now they have easy, fast access to a large audience, and can present themselves in any image they choose, which they may not be so capable of doing in real life. Kinda creates super narcs really 😬.
 
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Lloyd Cole, the man who writes on Twitter that all he wants for Christmas is a thousand Patreons.

He has 900, and makes excuses about how difficult it is to keep track of what content he has provided. "Bare with me" "I'll release old content" excuse after excuse for not providing Patreon content.

Birds of a feather and all that.
 
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So if Monroe is in bed and fully under the weather, where is BB? Is the boy looking after both of them? - if so, how weird would BB have to be to impose on a young lad/family in this way... that seems unlikely. If, as is more likely, BB is at her own place and not with Monroe then how did Monroe catch corona?
She’s been hither and yon, fraternising with all sorts, photo shoots, people in, her out attending, the work 50p jacket thing etc etc
 
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This just confirms (again) what we’ve known all along, she’s a lurker who probably has Tattle open on one phone and Twitter on the other.

I’m quite interested in the psychology of this though. If I was a jackanory and I read how many people had caught me out in so many lies, my stomach would drop and I’d feel “caught”. I would love to know if she would react the same but don’t see how she can. Does this fuel her behaviour - is it part of the game or does she feel like we’re just out to get her because she sees nothing wrong in what she’s doing? I find it quite fascinating but also very worrying.
I used to be quite a bit like Jack. In my experience:

Yes, she does feel caught and it is very humiliating for her, but she has ways of coping with this. Firstly her lies are impulsive and she usually doesn't think ahead too much about how not to get caught, so she's not worried ahead of time, at the moment of telling the lie. Secondly she draws comfort from the fact that she does still have many supporters, as well as a media career, and that her lying is not widely known. She will not be too worried yet, as she still feels in control of the narrative.

She will view each bit of evidence against her as separate, unimportant entities, and very minor and inconsequental things. Consequently, she doesn't feel overly worried or like a dishonest person, because she doesn't feel the full force of the whole picture of her lies.

Jack exaggerates as a matter of course, both for attention, and for the innocent reason that exaggerating and over-the-top language is her natural sense of humour. But this sense of humour and constant exaggerated desensitises both her, and her followers, to when she lies. This isn't really a conscious choice.

As you all know, she also twists the narrative so that any questioning of her is turn arouns into her being a victim of bullying. This is so that she herself doesn't have to confront her own lies, and also to control the narrative. This is helped along by the current climate of handwringing about social media "hate", "cyberbullying", "Trolling" yada yada.

She partly believes this and truly does see herself as a victim. For example, seeing the evidence against her as separate and unimportant, means that she feels that people are ridiculous, silly obsessive bullies to make a fuss out of any of it. She also enjoys victimhood as it makes her feel worthy. And she sees herself as a nice person and a hero.

As for if she knows she's lying, yes she does. The difference is her lies are very immersive. She is pretending to herself, and part of the acting and role playing is for herself more than anyone else. She is acting out her own movie in her head. Tie this into the deep emotional needs that are driving her lies - an unstable identity causing her to desparately create them for herself. Add in anxiety, a most importantly of all, the need to be praised like a small child - and you have many layers covering up the natural discomfort that normal people feel when lying.



She comes on here obsessively, like a schoolgirl obsessed with finding out what her enemy is saying about her. BUT on top of that she loves the attention and it makes her feel noticed and special. I think she does things on social media (the way she words things) specifically to get a reaction on here.
 
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I wonder if she’s still ‘gently working’ with her 40 degree+ temperature. Is she still under the weighted blanket, on or under the duvet, sleepless or sleeping? Or is she feeling sick or thinking about her multitudinous comfort foods from the 1970s. Could be worse - she could be back in the kitchen cooking up pitiful, jaundiced Christmas dinners.

Get well soon Jack. Although SEVERELY ill Jack is obviously very good for engagement. All those tweets and blue ticker attention 🥰
 
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also - is this how an immunocompromised person reacts to having covid and a dangerously high fever? Remember she claimed to be at the top of the vaccine priority list only last week
 
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I must say I'm very intrigued by Baptist Christian Jack. Poor old God having to listen to her narcissistic prayer on a regular basis.
 
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I'm sure it's possible to have covid and tweet excessively, but not if you've got it so badly, it's dreadful, the illest you've ever been. Especially not about food. There's a reason you tend to lose weight when you are genuinely ill, as food is so unappealing. But she is loving the attention and sympathy so can't stop.
 
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Am I being overly ‘triggered? Coz I detect a slight whiff of ‘gammon’ about that so-called joke. It’s a bit off imho. I don’t think you should be chuckling gleefully along to that one, Jack.

(PS:- catching up with you guys from Jack’s 70’s food nostalgia. My corona temperature was over 103 F for three days, bed sheets soaked, in a dark room, no phone, no twitter and -get this- no food. The very thought of butterscotch angel delight and viennetta would have pushed me over the edge.)

(Insert Jimmy Nail gif here)
 
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Has she made it through the night? I daren't even look at the latest posts - she appeared to be slipping away last night in a haze of childhood memories.

No don’t go Jack... Heinz toast toppers on toasted soft white sliced bread, ..... Just hang in there, there’s so much more engagement you could be getting if you just...hold on


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