Jack Monroe #114 i, slopbot

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Her appropriation of ADHD apart from being offensive also makes no sense. I could understand ADHD being an explanation for someone working in an unconventional way or struggling to manage competing demands but I've never known it to cause anyone to con someone out their heating allowance.
 
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Laura replied to Terminator Squiggle. If only it was in Jack’s nature to be compassionate instead of a thieving puppy human white as mayo hybrid.

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That ADHD graphic she put on twitter is really irritating.

I don't suffer from it personally, but I have a really good friend who has been diagnosed for >20 years now. He's a smart, successful social butterfly - always lights up a room, never has anything bad to say to anyone. If he thinks he's upset you he'll apologise immediately. More than a few times I've seen him ask someone to go for a coffee or for a walk if he sees they're upset. In other words, he's a lovely, perfectly normal human being. He's the polar opposite to so many of the things listed there, and it upsets me that because he has a diagnosis someone only seeing that graphic would label him as this unemployable, anxious, mood swinging person who'll always be late and forgetful. People are way more than a diagnosis.
And Jack claims to have every one of those traits below the waterline, plus those above. Every one, every single one, doesn't leave out a single one, no sir, she's got the lot.

As I said in a previous message, she reads a diagnosis on WebMD, or wherever, and thinks that she has to display each and every symptom for it to be believed. Quite the reverse, rarely do people have every single one of the symptoms/traits mentioned.

It actually shows her up to be a fraud.
 
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It’s very easy to get a private diagnosis of ADHD, especially as an adult. There isn’t a blood test or anything- the diagnosis comes from a series of questionnaires (and psychometric tests possibly). If you want a diagnosis you can read up and answer the questions as a person with ADHD would. In my job 🔺 sometimes students game the system to access study drugs (Ritalin, adderal as they are popular as study aids/ stimulants).
 
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I apologise in advance to the canal if this was spotted in earlier threads which I’ve not grunked, but I took a receipt of the tip jar. I couldn’t find it on the current website, but found it on a similar up to date version of the website as shown.

Last time I was on her website it was in its previous style with blog posts etc and the tip jar was certainly prominent.

Here it seems to be called “tip 2”
Thought she wasn’t a chef?
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I apologise in advance to the canal if this was spotted in earlier threads which I’ve not grunked, but I took a receipt of the tip jar. I couldn’t find it on the current website, but found it on a similar up to date version of the website as shown.

Last time I was on her website it was in its previous style with blog posts etc and the tip jar was certainly prominent.

Here it seems to be called “tip 2”
Thought she wasn’t a chef?
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"Fund the research and creation of new recipes" I THOUGHT EVERYTHING SHE COOKED WAS PERFECT FIRST TIME AND NEEDED NO TWEAKS? Therefore she doesn't need to be funded for it. No further questions, m'lud. *shuffles papers*
 
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That ADHD graphic she put on twitter is really irritating.

I don't suffer from it personally, but I have a really good friend who has been diagnosed for >20 years now. He's a smart, successful social butterfly - always lights up a room, never has anything bad to say to anyone. If he thinks he's upset you he'll apologise immediately. More than a few times I've seen him ask someone to go for a coffee or for a walk if he sees they're upset. In other words, he's a lovely, perfectly normal human being. He's the polar opposite to so many of the things listed there, and it upsets me that because he has a diagnosis someone only seeing that graphic would label him as this unemployable, anxious, mood swinging person who'll always be late and forgetful. People are way more than a diagnosis.
I have a friend very similar in loveliness to the one you've just described who got a late diagnosis recently after being on an NHS waiting list for about three years. He was wonderfully successful before, the only difference now is that his life is easier.
 
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I know someone who was diagnosed as an adult. She started meds just as I met her, the first ones didn’t work. The second ones- like a different person, so calm and measured until later on in the evening when they started to wear off!
Successful in her career, tied herself in circles to stay on top of the work and deliver, never knowingly grifted.
 
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I apologise in advance to the canal if this was spotted in earlier threads which I’ve not grunked, but I took a receipt of the tip jar. I couldn’t find it on the current website, but found it on a similar up to date version of the website as shown.

Last time I was on her website it was in its previous style with blog posts etc and the tip jar was certainly prominent.

Here it seems to be called “tip 2”
Thought she wasn’t a chef?
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I've just been on the site too and couldn't find an obvious tip jar link. I did find a link at the bottom of a blog post which takes you to a donation page but it took some finding. Has she partially removed it or was it always like that?
 
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I'm like 20 pages behind so hope this isn't a weird time to come in but:

THE SLOPPIES ARE NOW LIVE
(At least I think, hope and pray they are anyway)

please tell me if it doesn't work

I've tried it on a laptop and an android smartphone and it seems to be working!

Winners will go up on Tattle, not sure of date yet but im thinking close submissions Tuesday 15th Dec & announce on thread Sunday 20th? (Taking feedback on this though, obviously we need to pick a specific time and then be about half an hour late as well, in true JM fashion)
Well done, @Switchstreetz, what a hoot. Brilliant work, just brilliant.
 
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Do you think we should alert @Incywincy to the Sloppies? I would hate for them to reach it long after the closing date and be unable to vote. They are only on 106......almost 30 threads behind!
 
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i get annoyed at her co-opting of ADHD, autism and neurodiversity in general also, as someone with a professional and personal specialism/interest (🔺) and my own diagnosis. i actually hate social media and don’t use it because i notice the people who are loudest publicly about their difficulties/differences often seem to have their own ulterior motive for doing so be it financial, for attention, internet fame or as a means to excuse their behaviour. most of us are just trying to struggle on with our lives quietly finding ways to manage and while i do think the actual reality of different neurodiverse presentations and the impact of ‘symptoms’ should be visible, loud attention-seeking people like JM drown out others voices and actually don’t help the cause at all IMO.

i don’t want to be all medical model either but i don’t trust that some of the louder advocates (no one in specific, just in general) do actually meet the clinical criteria, since it’s on the internet and people can portray their presentation and any diagnoses however they like. often for autism especially i notice so many self-diagnosed people putting themselves out as figureheads and speaking for others and attacking people. traits of neurodevelopmental conditions are present in every person but it’s the co-occurrence, pervasiveness throughout the lifespan and across different contexts, and the impact and while self-diagnosis for autism is valid because of lack of diagnostic services for adults especially, i see things getting quite out of hand on social media and it bothers me. the ADHD stuff bothers me more though. i hate seeing people like JM talking about the medication that they take and specifically highlighting how it’s a controlled drug, a stimulant, anything else JM has said about hers that i can’t remember now. she is majorly attention-seeking on that front (just remembered another - when she made a big deal about not giving the name of her medication because it makes you lose weight! i eat like duck on mine btw 🤣)

this is a pointless post with no real purpose really, just wanted to chip in with my thoughts in support of others who get pissed off about this. went off on a tangent so i apologise 🙂
 
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I amuse myself these days by ambushing my friends with egregious pics of JM.
 
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There is a stand up comedian called Bethany Black who talks about her diagnosies on stage, she’s is also on the National Autistic Soc website being interviewed. I would advise any frau or Herr who might want an irreverent laugh to check her out. I won’t give away her lines but she has one SO appropriate!!!!!
 
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Hmmmm interesting. Any idea what she means by deactivate? Her twitter account? The story? Anyway, being this cryptic must be driving Jack up the wall... 👀

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